How as a parent can you over come this sticky situation?

This woman had been dating a guy for four years. She thought they had the perfect relationship. Things were going great.They were also engaged.





Then she found out she was pregnant. He seemed to have been really excited. When she was seven months pregnant at the peak of her pregancy her world came crashing down when he left her. It is not the fact that he left her that had her down its who he left her for. He left his 7months pregnant wife for.....................................鈥?her brother





I am not making this up.How as a parent can you over come this sticky situation?
Move on and realize your boyfriend and brother are both loosers! They are horrible people, and deserve each other. Be glad you found out so soon. You can keep the baby away from that loser now, before it is too late for the baby!


I suggest moving, and having fun!How as a parent can you over come this sticky situation?
Yes him leaving her was horrible no matter who it was for. Her brother worse but... hes gay and you cant change that. He may still be a wonderful father and her brother is now becoming an uncle. It prob wasn't so much HER as why he left but the fact that is was a HER. I wouldn't want him to lie and live a life he hated. He will become some one both she and maybe the child would hate. Best to find out now i guess rather then when the child was older and had to try to explain that hes been living a lie all those years.
That is horrible. First off, I would never have anything to do with my brother again. Also, what state do you live in? If you live in an ';at fault'; state I would divorce him for adultery and try to get full rights of the child, which is entirely possible. If you don't feel that is right, I would divorce him, try for joint custody, keep it civil and have nothing to do with your brother ever again. So sorry this happened !
It doesn't matter that her brother is gay - it is the fact that he took her fiance! That would be the same as if her sister took her fiance. That is terrible and I would never talk to him again. Such betrayal and especially since she is pregnant. So if they live together and get married (providing it is allowed in their state) it means that the baby will call him uncle or stepdaddy?? That's messed up!
For the sake of yourself and your child you would have to somehow realize that you are not to blame for either of those betrayals. How heartbreaking for the woman. I couldn't ever speak to or look at either one again.
I would never forgive my brother,that is the ultimate betrayal.
That is one for Jerry.
Wow. There's no way you could console someone like that.
Yuck... That just ain't right...