Okay! Im NOT naughty and im not perverted to go on porn web-sites, but its myspace, my parents dont know i have one :// how can i make sure they NEVER find out i was on it?? (Like there's only one computer in the house and the whole family gets on it :// ... well actually there 3 but the other 2 are my sisters who is in college...Any help!?!?!?!?!How to get on a web-site without your parent's knowing?
Well, first all you have to do is go on the site you want, and then you do this afterwards-
Okay, this is what you do:
1. On your right side of the computer screen, look for ';Tools.';
2. Click on it and look for ';Internet Options.';
3. Click on ';Internet Options'; and in the General tab, there should be the ';Browsing History'; Section.
4. Click on the ';Delete'; button.
5. Then, this little window thing will pop up and go to the bottom of the little window tab and click ';Delete All.';
And there you go! :D
隆p菨dl菨丧 谋 菨do丧 谋How to get on a web-site without your parent's knowing?
Myspace is unregulated and I don't blame your parents for not letting you.
Use Facebook instead and introduce it to them. It's more family friendly. And the only ones that can communicate with you are the friends you allow in.
Also, hiding the fact you have a myspace is a form of lying. When they find out you will not be trusted and loose even more privileges. Don't do it.
delete the history and cookies from your computer
Saturday, July 31, 2010
As a parent, what would you like to see at a preschool graduation?
Ok, I'm a preschool teacher that's hosting a graduation/moving up ceremony for my class. Now as a parent, what would you like to see at a graduation? I was thinking singing 2-3 songs, give out diplomas, show a slideshow of what they did through the year, etc. But what would make it really good?As a parent, what would you like to see at a preschool graduation?
To be honest-as mom, I would like to see him stay in pre-school and not go to big boy school-LOL. But I think the ideas you have are great. Maybe have some of their art work on display in the hall so family can see it (you will get more than just mom and dad-aunts, unlces, grands will all be there). And I would say keep the program short-lots of the kids will have younger sibs there and they can't take more than 20 minutes or so. Maybe as a theme type idea you could use school buses? My son loves buses as do most of the kids at his day care center and that is a big part of when I go to big kid school (getting to ride the bus). If you do a bus theme (not the typical graduation thing) then you could have a bus on the cake for the little reception, you could make bus things for art, they could sing the wheels on the bus and change the words to say things like Wheels go around, we-ll be big kids on the bus off to school, driver on the bus says ';sh';, or the bus takes us to our new school yeah yeah yeah. I think I would like something like that more than the traditional pre-school graduation as that would get us excited about moving on to the next chapter which can be tough for little kids. Keep it up beat, fun , and light. Sounds like you are planning a great program.As a parent, what would you like to see at a preschool graduation?
well im a highschool student and last year for our school's preschool graduation
we did a gramies night type of thing were we gave them little trophies and as each child came up they had a song and there picture and it says like ';biggest flirt'; for one of the boys and the song for him was girls
that sounds great
but make sure every child is represented equally
hey if you can afford it or have a dvd burner make a dvd of the ceremony for all the parents
my kindergarten teacher forgot me in the slideshow he did
and told my mom it was because i was so tiny he didnt notice me
but this was the same teacher that wanted to hold me back because of my size
My daughters preschool gave out an award to each child that fit their personality. She is obsessed with Super Hero's and wears shirts of them a lot. So she got the Super Hero award, it was so cute and fun to see what each child received that fit their personality. They also had each of them run out and hand a carnation to their moms which melted my heart.
That sounds just like my kids playschool grad. The teacher made little grad caps for them to wear as well.
My kids are now 14, 11 %26amp; 10 and we still have those hats up in their memory boxes. I love them!
Oh, that sounds like it's going to be a great celebration!
My daughter's preschool graduation was basically just what you're describing and it was indeed a very special day for all of us.
I wouldn't do much more - No reason to go overboard (Despite the pressure you may be getting from overbearing parents).
im afraid i cant top that, that sounds brilliant! im sure if i was a parent id like to see that =D maybe as well just a few sweets ';for the road'; ;)dental cosmetics
To be honest-as mom, I would like to see him stay in pre-school and not go to big boy school-LOL. But I think the ideas you have are great. Maybe have some of their art work on display in the hall so family can see it (you will get more than just mom and dad-aunts, unlces, grands will all be there). And I would say keep the program short-lots of the kids will have younger sibs there and they can't take more than 20 minutes or so. Maybe as a theme type idea you could use school buses? My son loves buses as do most of the kids at his day care center and that is a big part of when I go to big kid school (getting to ride the bus). If you do a bus theme (not the typical graduation thing) then you could have a bus on the cake for the little reception, you could make bus things for art, they could sing the wheels on the bus and change the words to say things like Wheels go around, we-ll be big kids on the bus off to school, driver on the bus says ';sh';, or the bus takes us to our new school yeah yeah yeah. I think I would like something like that more than the traditional pre-school graduation as that would get us excited about moving on to the next chapter which can be tough for little kids. Keep it up beat, fun , and light. Sounds like you are planning a great program.As a parent, what would you like to see at a preschool graduation?
well im a highschool student and last year for our school's preschool graduation
we did a gramies night type of thing were we gave them little trophies and as each child came up they had a song and there picture and it says like ';biggest flirt'; for one of the boys and the song for him was girls
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that sounds great
but make sure every child is represented equally
hey if you can afford it or have a dvd burner make a dvd of the ceremony for all the parents
my kindergarten teacher forgot me in the slideshow he did
and told my mom it was because i was so tiny he didnt notice me
but this was the same teacher that wanted to hold me back because of my size
My daughters preschool gave out an award to each child that fit their personality. She is obsessed with Super Hero's and wears shirts of them a lot. So she got the Super Hero award, it was so cute and fun to see what each child received that fit their personality. They also had each of them run out and hand a carnation to their moms which melted my heart.
That sounds just like my kids playschool grad. The teacher made little grad caps for them to wear as well.
My kids are now 14, 11 %26amp; 10 and we still have those hats up in their memory boxes. I love them!
Oh, that sounds like it's going to be a great celebration!
My daughter's preschool graduation was basically just what you're describing and it was indeed a very special day for all of us.
I wouldn't do much more - No reason to go overboard (Despite the pressure you may be getting from overbearing parents).
im afraid i cant top that, that sounds brilliant! im sure if i was a parent id like to see that =D maybe as well just a few sweets ';for the road'; ;)
Is it okay for you to not go to a drivers training school, but train with a parent?
Since I'm over 17 1/2, and don't really feel like wasting the $265 for a drivers training school since I'll be 18 in less than 6 months, is it okay if I do my 50 hours of driving with my parents? Or is it required to go to a driving school?Is it okay for you to not go to a drivers training school, but train with a parent?
It might vary by state, but a lot of insurance companies offer a discount if you show proof of having taken driving lessons with a professional. Considering that you'll pay much higher rates until you are 25, it might be worth it to get the discount. Look for good student discounts too...
It might vary by state, but a lot of insurance companies offer a discount if you show proof of having taken driving lessons with a professional. Considering that you'll pay much higher rates until you are 25, it might be worth it to get the discount. Look for good student discounts too...
When a parent dies what are the first things that should be done pertaining to finances?
Thanks.When a parent dies what are the first things that should be done pertaining to finances?
well I am not an attorney but here are some things to consider
Is there a will? If so get to an attorney with it ASAP - the executor of the will has most of the fiduciary responsibility
Collect all bank account information and debts. (you may need to watch incoming mail to get a bead on this unless the person was well organized - my mother was ultra organized here)
Collect information on life insurance and retirement (401k, Pension plans)
Collect all credit cards
Look through personal files for information - you may find actual physical stock certificates and tax information
Just some thoughtsWhen a parent dies what are the first things that should be done pertaining to finances?
read will if any, - if no will - talk to a probate lawyer before doing anything - pay for the funeral, contact life insurance companies for claims, pay outstnding bills, s
You need a probate attorney.
well I am not an attorney but here are some things to consider
Is there a will? If so get to an attorney with it ASAP - the executor of the will has most of the fiduciary responsibility
Collect all bank account information and debts. (you may need to watch incoming mail to get a bead on this unless the person was well organized - my mother was ultra organized here)
Collect information on life insurance and retirement (401k, Pension plans)
Collect all credit cards
Look through personal files for information - you may find actual physical stock certificates and tax information
Just some thoughtsWhen a parent dies what are the first things that should be done pertaining to finances?
read will if any, - if no will - talk to a probate lawyer before doing anything - pay for the funeral, contact life insurance companies for claims, pay outstnding bills, s
You need a probate attorney.
If someone navigates within an iFrame, I want the parent page to scroll back to the top. How do I do it?
I have an Amazon aStore integrated into a website using iFrames. How can I program the iFrame such than when someone clicks a link within it, the whole page scrolls back to the top - ie as if you were clicking a link on a normal web page instead of the iFrame? I can't modify the links within the aStore manually.
And is there any simple way of making the iFrame autoresize, given that aStores are on a different domain?If someone navigates within an iFrame, I want the parent page to scroll back to the top. How do I do it?
sounds like you need to add a script to your page.
Try googling for an iFrame autoresize script. Something like this I found:
In the header add this:
%26lt;script language=';JavaScript';%26gt;
function resize() {
var iframe = document.all.iframe_name;
iframe.height=document.frames(';iframe_na鈥?
}
%26lt;/script%26gt;
In the body, you'll need this:
%26lt;body onload=';resize()';%26gt;
or...
%26lt;iframe onload=';resize()';%26gt;
Then add this to the iframe property list:
%26lt;iframe scrolling=';no'; %26gt;%26lt;/iframe%26gt;
And is there any simple way of making the iFrame autoresize, given that aStores are on a different domain?If someone navigates within an iFrame, I want the parent page to scroll back to the top. How do I do it?
sounds like you need to add a script to your page.
Try googling for an iFrame autoresize script. Something like this I found:
In the header add this:
%26lt;script language=';JavaScript';%26gt;
function resize() {
var iframe = document.all.iframe_name;
iframe.height=document.frames(';iframe_na鈥?
}
%26lt;/script%26gt;
In the body, you'll need this:
%26lt;body onload=';resize()';%26gt;
or...
%26lt;iframe onload=';resize()';%26gt;
Then add this to the iframe property list:
%26lt;iframe scrolling=';no'; %26gt;%26lt;/iframe%26gt;
How to get on a web-site without your parent's knowing?
Okay! Im NOT naughty and im not perverted to go on porn web-sites, but its myspace, my parents dont know i have one :// how can i make sure they NEVER find out i was on it?? (Like there's only one computer in the house and the whole family gets on it :// ... well actually there 3 but the other 2 are my sisters who is in college...Any help!?!?!?!?!How to get on a web-site without your parent's knowing?
Well, first all you have to do is go on the site you want, and then you do this afterwards-
Okay, this is what you do:
1. On your right side of the computer screen, look for ';Tools.';
2. Click on it and look for ';Internet Options.';
3. Click on ';Internet Options'; and in the General tab, there should be the ';Browsing History'; Section.
4. Click on the ';Delete'; button.
5. Then, this little window thing will pop up and go to the bottom of the little window tab and click ';Delete All.';
And there you go! :D
隆p菨dl菨丧 谋 菨do丧 谋How to get on a web-site without your parent's knowing?
Myspace is unregulated and I don't blame your parents for not letting you.
Use Facebook instead and introduce it to them. It's more family friendly. And the only ones that can communicate with you are the friends you allow in.
Also, hiding the fact you have a myspace is a form of lying. When they find out you will not be trusted and loose even more privileges. Don't do it.
delete the history and cookies from your computer
Well, first all you have to do is go on the site you want, and then you do this afterwards-
Okay, this is what you do:
1. On your right side of the computer screen, look for ';Tools.';
2. Click on it and look for ';Internet Options.';
3. Click on ';Internet Options'; and in the General tab, there should be the ';Browsing History'; Section.
4. Click on the ';Delete'; button.
5. Then, this little window thing will pop up and go to the bottom of the little window tab and click ';Delete All.';
And there you go! :D
隆p菨dl菨丧 谋 菨do丧 谋How to get on a web-site without your parent's knowing?
Myspace is unregulated and I don't blame your parents for not letting you.
Use Facebook instead and introduce it to them. It's more family friendly. And the only ones that can communicate with you are the friends you allow in.
Also, hiding the fact you have a myspace is a form of lying. When they find out you will not be trusted and loose even more privileges. Don't do it.
delete the history and cookies from your computer
As a parent, what would you like to see at a preschool graduation?
Ok, I'm a preschool teacher that's hosting a graduation/moving up ceremony for my class. Now as a parent, what would you like to see at a graduation? I was thinking singing 2-3 songs, give out diplomas, show a slideshow of what they did through the year, etc. But what would make it really good?As a parent, what would you like to see at a preschool graduation?
To be honest-as mom, I would like to see him stay in pre-school and not go to big boy school-LOL. But I think the ideas you have are great. Maybe have some of their art work on display in the hall so family can see it (you will get more than just mom and dad-aunts, unlces, grands will all be there). And I would say keep the program short-lots of the kids will have younger sibs there and they can't take more than 20 minutes or so. Maybe as a theme type idea you could use school buses? My son loves buses as do most of the kids at his day care center and that is a big part of when I go to big kid school (getting to ride the bus). If you do a bus theme (not the typical graduation thing) then you could have a bus on the cake for the little reception, you could make bus things for art, they could sing the wheels on the bus and change the words to say things like Wheels go around, we-ll be big kids on the bus off to school, driver on the bus says ';sh';, or the bus takes us to our new school yeah yeah yeah. I think I would like something like that more than the traditional pre-school graduation as that would get us excited about moving on to the next chapter which can be tough for little kids. Keep it up beat, fun , and light. Sounds like you are planning a great program.As a parent, what would you like to see at a preschool graduation?
well im a highschool student and last year for our school's preschool graduation
we did a gramies night type of thing were we gave them little trophies and as each child came up they had a song and there picture and it says like ';biggest flirt'; for one of the boys and the song for him was girls
that sounds great
but make sure every child is represented equally
hey if you can afford it or have a dvd burner make a dvd of the ceremony for all the parents
my kindergarten teacher forgot me in the slideshow he did
and told my mom it was because i was so tiny he didnt notice me
but this was the same teacher that wanted to hold me back because of my size
My daughters preschool gave out an award to each child that fit their personality. She is obsessed with Super Hero's and wears shirts of them a lot. So she got the Super Hero award, it was so cute and fun to see what each child received that fit their personality. They also had each of them run out and hand a carnation to their moms which melted my heart.
That sounds just like my kids playschool grad. The teacher made little grad caps for them to wear as well.
My kids are now 14, 11 %26amp; 10 and we still have those hats up in their memory boxes. I love them!
Oh, that sounds like it's going to be a great celebration!
My daughter's preschool graduation was basically just what you're describing and it was indeed a very special day for all of us.
I wouldn't do much more - No reason to go overboard (Despite the pressure you may be getting from overbearing parents).
im afraid i cant top that, that sounds brilliant! im sure if i was a parent id like to see that =D maybe as well just a few sweets ';for the road'; ;)
To be honest-as mom, I would like to see him stay in pre-school and not go to big boy school-LOL. But I think the ideas you have are great. Maybe have some of their art work on display in the hall so family can see it (you will get more than just mom and dad-aunts, unlces, grands will all be there). And I would say keep the program short-lots of the kids will have younger sibs there and they can't take more than 20 minutes or so. Maybe as a theme type idea you could use school buses? My son loves buses as do most of the kids at his day care center and that is a big part of when I go to big kid school (getting to ride the bus). If you do a bus theme (not the typical graduation thing) then you could have a bus on the cake for the little reception, you could make bus things for art, they could sing the wheels on the bus and change the words to say things like Wheels go around, we-ll be big kids on the bus off to school, driver on the bus says ';sh';, or the bus takes us to our new school yeah yeah yeah. I think I would like something like that more than the traditional pre-school graduation as that would get us excited about moving on to the next chapter which can be tough for little kids. Keep it up beat, fun , and light. Sounds like you are planning a great program.As a parent, what would you like to see at a preschool graduation?
well im a highschool student and last year for our school's preschool graduation
we did a gramies night type of thing were we gave them little trophies and as each child came up they had a song and there picture and it says like ';biggest flirt'; for one of the boys and the song for him was girls
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that sounds great
but make sure every child is represented equally
hey if you can afford it or have a dvd burner make a dvd of the ceremony for all the parents
my kindergarten teacher forgot me in the slideshow he did
and told my mom it was because i was so tiny he didnt notice me
but this was the same teacher that wanted to hold me back because of my size
My daughters preschool gave out an award to each child that fit their personality. She is obsessed with Super Hero's and wears shirts of them a lot. So she got the Super Hero award, it was so cute and fun to see what each child received that fit their personality. They also had each of them run out and hand a carnation to their moms which melted my heart.
That sounds just like my kids playschool grad. The teacher made little grad caps for them to wear as well.
My kids are now 14, 11 %26amp; 10 and we still have those hats up in their memory boxes. I love them!
Oh, that sounds like it's going to be a great celebration!
My daughter's preschool graduation was basically just what you're describing and it was indeed a very special day for all of us.
I wouldn't do much more - No reason to go overboard (Despite the pressure you may be getting from overbearing parents).
im afraid i cant top that, that sounds brilliant! im sure if i was a parent id like to see that =D maybe as well just a few sweets ';for the road'; ;)
Is it okay for you to not go to a drivers training school, but train with a parent?
Since I'm over 17 1/2, and don't really feel like wasting the $265 for a drivers training school since I'll be 18 in less than 6 months, is it okay if I do my 50 hours of driving with my parents? Or is it required to go to a driving school?Is it okay for you to not go to a drivers training school, but train with a parent?
It might vary by state, but a lot of insurance companies offer a discount if you show proof of having taken driving lessons with a professional. Considering that you'll pay much higher rates until you are 25, it might be worth it to get the discount. Look for good student discounts too...dental cosmetics
It might vary by state, but a lot of insurance companies offer a discount if you show proof of having taken driving lessons with a professional. Considering that you'll pay much higher rates until you are 25, it might be worth it to get the discount. Look for good student discounts too...
What are the differences between the grandiose self, idealized parent imago, nuclear self, cohesive self, and?
the autonomous self?What are the differences between the grandiose self, idealized parent imago, nuclear self, cohesive self, and?
They are all the ';Not'; Self.....
They are all the ';Not'; Self.....
Is a parent not paying for a minor's health bill something to get the law involved with?
A 17 year child has had some issues with her period that she shouldnt be having....like having it last waaaaaay longer than it is supposed. she has gone to get some tests done, but she had to pay for them herself. her mother claims that she doesnt have the money to pay or put her on the mother's insurance. the mother wont take the daughter to the healath clinic as of right now. the daughter tried to get an appointment one day and the mother said she couldnt take off work to take her.....
the mother still hasnt called the health clinic to set one, she says the daughter needs to do it.
daughter is really worried something might be wrong with her.
what do u think?Is a parent not paying for a minor's health bill something to get the law involved with?
unless their is an obvious serious condition with the health of the child which the parent is neglecting the law will not be of much helpIs a parent not paying for a minor's health bill something to get the law involved with?
why is she not covered on the work health plan? that would be 1st issue with the mother......she has medical via work and her child is in pain with problems and the mother is NOT covering them.
Under the age of 18 any bills incurred by the child would fall to the parent but then if the mother does not authorise it then the child is stuck.
Maybe it would help to get another adult involved as the mother seems to be a bit selfish IMO.
regards
Daughter is a minor and can't consent to medical treatment anyway, so the mother MUST be involved. The mother has a legal duty to tend to the medical needs of her children.
Tell daughter to go by herself to a free clinic. She doesn't need her mother's permission to health care.
ASIDE FROM DANIEL'S LEGALLY INCORRECT replay, the reason the mother of her friend has stopped taking her is because of legal liability.
The fact remains, the child has a constitutional right to health case decisions without interference of a third party.
She needs to take herself to planned parenthood. PERIOD!
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO...that's a tough one, mom may NOT have the money BUT the daughter needs care
http://www.healthychildcaretexas.org/
I think the daughter needs to get a friend to take her or a friend's mother if she believes something is wrong. Tell the girl to call her county or city family/health services. They can help her figure out how to get medical care if she needs it. She is probably eligible for a number of programs.
Good luck!
barbarians
child health care should be free
great story but at 17 the girl needs to be taking care of herself...if she can get to the mall I'm sure she can get to the Dr..... and yes a parent not paying needs the police/court to remind them...
I think that you, as the daughter, ought to make your appointment with the Health Clinic (ie, Family Planning, where it is free) and take the bus there. Are you even certain your Mom has health insurance? No one in my family did when I lived at home.
Contact Family Planning, then get yourself to your appointment. Easy, easy.
.
the mother still hasnt called the health clinic to set one, she says the daughter needs to do it.
daughter is really worried something might be wrong with her.
what do u think?Is a parent not paying for a minor's health bill something to get the law involved with?
unless their is an obvious serious condition with the health of the child which the parent is neglecting the law will not be of much helpIs a parent not paying for a minor's health bill something to get the law involved with?
why is she not covered on the work health plan? that would be 1st issue with the mother......she has medical via work and her child is in pain with problems and the mother is NOT covering them.
Under the age of 18 any bills incurred by the child would fall to the parent but then if the mother does not authorise it then the child is stuck.
Maybe it would help to get another adult involved as the mother seems to be a bit selfish IMO.
regards
Daughter is a minor and can't consent to medical treatment anyway, so the mother MUST be involved. The mother has a legal duty to tend to the medical needs of her children.
Tell daughter to go by herself to a free clinic. She doesn't need her mother's permission to health care.
ASIDE FROM DANIEL'S LEGALLY INCORRECT replay, the reason the mother of her friend has stopped taking her is because of legal liability.
The fact remains, the child has a constitutional right to health case decisions without interference of a third party.
She needs to take herself to planned parenthood. PERIOD!
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO...that's a tough one, mom may NOT have the money BUT the daughter needs care
http://www.healthychildcaretexas.org/
I think the daughter needs to get a friend to take her or a friend's mother if she believes something is wrong. Tell the girl to call her county or city family/health services. They can help her figure out how to get medical care if she needs it. She is probably eligible for a number of programs.
Good luck!
barbarians
child health care should be free
great story but at 17 the girl needs to be taking care of herself...if she can get to the mall I'm sure she can get to the Dr..... and yes a parent not paying needs the police/court to remind them...
I think that you, as the daughter, ought to make your appointment with the Health Clinic (ie, Family Planning, where it is free) and take the bus there. Are you even certain your Mom has health insurance? No one in my family did when I lived at home.
Contact Family Planning, then get yourself to your appointment. Easy, easy.
.
We are a caucasion couple who have an opp to adopt a biracial baby. Looking for adoptee, parent input etc?
We have a 9YO son and this is something we've already committed to doing--trying to get some constructive perspective and thoughts from varying view points We are a caucasion couple who have an opp to adopt a biracial baby. Looking for adoptee, parent input etc?
We (a caucasian couple) adopted two children from Liberia. There are some unique challenges to transracial adoption. Not insurmountable challenges, but they do exist and do need to be acknowledged.
A few things to think about:
Caring for ethnic skin and hair, which is very different from Caucasian skin and hair.
Teaching your child about racism when it's something you've never experienced.
Trying to instill a sense of pride in a culture and ethnicity that you don't share.
Also it's worth mentioning that transracial families are ';visible'; families. Everywhere we go, heads turn. People notice us and stare. Not necessarily disapproving stares, but we just aren't one of those families that blend in.
Your homework is to go someplace where you are the only Caucasian in the room and your presence will stick out. I remember the first time I walked into an ethnic hair salon with my daughter. All conversation stopped and everyone looked at me.
It's a good exercise to change your perception.
Let me recommend a couple of books: Inside Transracial Adoption and In Their Own Voices. Great resources.
Best of luck to you.We are a caucasion couple who have an opp to adopt a biracial baby. Looking for adoptee, parent input etc?
My wife and I are caucasian and our oldest daughter (almost 16) is East Indian while the baby is First Nations. Both were adopted and both share a caucasian sister (in the middle) that was born to my wife and I.
Our experiences have been generally positive and I think that is due primarily due to the fact that we have always been an interracial family from the first adoption. It's just always been part of who we are as a family. We never recieved any negative comments from anyone here in Canada although we did have one incident on a trip to upstate New York but I just chalk it up to an ignorant individual.
The addition of the First Nations baby this past spring has only added to the uniqueness of our family and in fact the social worker who did the placement stated she would prefer she go to a mixed race family. In most parts of Canada, First Nations children can only be adopted by other First Nations families unless they don't have Native status which this little one doesn't. Her only choice was to be adopted by a caucasian family and since we were already multi-racial it was just a good fit.
As far as advice goes, I would just suggest that you learn as much as you can about the racial culture of any child you adopt so that you can incorporate that into your family as much as possible and as much as the child wishes. I don't mean to beat them over the head with it but at least be aware and open. My East Indian daughter has no interest in India since she has been raised in Canada since she was 3 1/2 (we adopted her at 8 months old while we were living in India and didn't return to Canada till she was 3 1/2). We've always talked about India, gone to different East Indian cultural events as they come up and tried to keep that alive in her but she eventually decided that she is more Canadian and doesn't have the interest any more. At least she had the exposure though and as a result all of my children are very tolerant of other cultures and races and are very aware of them in our society. If you do the same then the adoption should be successful and you, your spouse and son will only benefit as well.
What races are the child? I would say it all depends on you and your husband and your families. I'm sure at some point you will get stares or comments, but if you and your husband feel good about it, then thats all that matters. It would also be easier if you came up with replies to that stuff ahead of time, so your not put on the spot. I was watching Oprah I think or Dr. phil the other day about kids who were abandoned at birth. They had a african american girl on there who was left at the Delta Ticket counter at a few days old. Anyway, she was adopted by a white family and raised in a mostly white community. She said she was the only black girl at her school until 7th grade. She ended up becoming Miss Kansas. She was such a sweet girl and showed such love for her parents. I think it really just depends on how you raise the baby, is how they will feel about their situation. If you could give a baby a loving home, then go for it.
Basically there are more bi-racial children without homes than there is bi-racial adoptive parents so to balance number some will need to be adopted by caucasian couples. I would definately go for it but be prepared that if you race does not match that of your child they will have some additional issues to work through as they may not feel they fit in with the family and you may get some rude comments from ignorant people.
I say go for it. If you want to adopt a baby that is biracial, I think it's great.
i don't think race is as much of an issue as separating a child from it's mother.
We (a caucasian couple) adopted two children from Liberia. There are some unique challenges to transracial adoption. Not insurmountable challenges, but they do exist and do need to be acknowledged.
A few things to think about:
Caring for ethnic skin and hair, which is very different from Caucasian skin and hair.
Teaching your child about racism when it's something you've never experienced.
Trying to instill a sense of pride in a culture and ethnicity that you don't share.
Also it's worth mentioning that transracial families are ';visible'; families. Everywhere we go, heads turn. People notice us and stare. Not necessarily disapproving stares, but we just aren't one of those families that blend in.
Your homework is to go someplace where you are the only Caucasian in the room and your presence will stick out. I remember the first time I walked into an ethnic hair salon with my daughter. All conversation stopped and everyone looked at me.
It's a good exercise to change your perception.
Let me recommend a couple of books: Inside Transracial Adoption and In Their Own Voices. Great resources.
Best of luck to you.We are a caucasion couple who have an opp to adopt a biracial baby. Looking for adoptee, parent input etc?
My wife and I are caucasian and our oldest daughter (almost 16) is East Indian while the baby is First Nations. Both were adopted and both share a caucasian sister (in the middle) that was born to my wife and I.
Our experiences have been generally positive and I think that is due primarily due to the fact that we have always been an interracial family from the first adoption. It's just always been part of who we are as a family. We never recieved any negative comments from anyone here in Canada although we did have one incident on a trip to upstate New York but I just chalk it up to an ignorant individual.
The addition of the First Nations baby this past spring has only added to the uniqueness of our family and in fact the social worker who did the placement stated she would prefer she go to a mixed race family. In most parts of Canada, First Nations children can only be adopted by other First Nations families unless they don't have Native status which this little one doesn't. Her only choice was to be adopted by a caucasian family and since we were already multi-racial it was just a good fit.
As far as advice goes, I would just suggest that you learn as much as you can about the racial culture of any child you adopt so that you can incorporate that into your family as much as possible and as much as the child wishes. I don't mean to beat them over the head with it but at least be aware and open. My East Indian daughter has no interest in India since she has been raised in Canada since she was 3 1/2 (we adopted her at 8 months old while we were living in India and didn't return to Canada till she was 3 1/2). We've always talked about India, gone to different East Indian cultural events as they come up and tried to keep that alive in her but she eventually decided that she is more Canadian and doesn't have the interest any more. At least she had the exposure though and as a result all of my children are very tolerant of other cultures and races and are very aware of them in our society. If you do the same then the adoption should be successful and you, your spouse and son will only benefit as well.
What races are the child? I would say it all depends on you and your husband and your families. I'm sure at some point you will get stares or comments, but if you and your husband feel good about it, then thats all that matters. It would also be easier if you came up with replies to that stuff ahead of time, so your not put on the spot. I was watching Oprah I think or Dr. phil the other day about kids who were abandoned at birth. They had a african american girl on there who was left at the Delta Ticket counter at a few days old. Anyway, she was adopted by a white family and raised in a mostly white community. She said she was the only black girl at her school until 7th grade. She ended up becoming Miss Kansas. She was such a sweet girl and showed such love for her parents. I think it really just depends on how you raise the baby, is how they will feel about their situation. If you could give a baby a loving home, then go for it.
Basically there are more bi-racial children without homes than there is bi-racial adoptive parents so to balance number some will need to be adopted by caucasian couples. I would definately go for it but be prepared that if you race does not match that of your child they will have some additional issues to work through as they may not feel they fit in with the family and you may get some rude comments from ignorant people.
I say go for it. If you want to adopt a baby that is biracial, I think it's great.
i don't think race is as much of an issue as separating a child from it's mother.
Can I claim Head of Household as a Single Parent even though the child doesn't live with me?
Can I claim head of household as a single parent even though the child doesn't live with me? The child is a qualifying child and I'm claiming the child as a dependent as per agreement but the child doesn't live with me.Can I claim Head of Household as a Single Parent even though the child doesn't live with me?
2 is technically correct. However, if the dependant person is away temporarily he/she is still considered as living with you. ie: student away at school.Can I claim Head of Household as a Single Parent even though the child doesn't live with me?
I disagree with the second answer, if the child doesn't live with you but you are the main provider for that child then yes you may claim to be HOH. My father was claiming HOH before we came from Mexico(legally) because he was the main supporter for the family even-though we were not living here with him. He had to show immigration that he was supporting us and would continue to once we came here so he always did his taxes on time and he was considered HOH.
If you still have questions go to a tax preparer...yes they charge but you'll get all your questions answered.
Good Luck
NOPE. Single with a dependent. You get the dependency exemption ($3500), but only filing status of Single. The custodial parent can file HOH and can even get EIC, although you take dependency exemption.
Nope. One of the main requirements of filing HOH is that the child must live with you more than half the year:
http://www.irs.gov/publications/p501/ar0鈥?/a>
No, To claim Head of Household you must be the single support of a dependent in your home.
Leslie
As long as you have a qualified dependent, then you can claim HOH. Who the child actually lives with is irrelevant. Your son qualifies as a dependent for HOH purposes.
2 is technically correct. However, if the dependant person is away temporarily he/she is still considered as living with you. ie: student away at school.Can I claim Head of Household as a Single Parent even though the child doesn't live with me?
I disagree with the second answer, if the child doesn't live with you but you are the main provider for that child then yes you may claim to be HOH. My father was claiming HOH before we came from Mexico(legally) because he was the main supporter for the family even-though we were not living here with him. He had to show immigration that he was supporting us and would continue to once we came here so he always did his taxes on time and he was considered HOH.
If you still have questions go to a tax preparer...yes they charge but you'll get all your questions answered.
Good Luck
NOPE. Single with a dependent. You get the dependency exemption ($3500), but only filing status of Single. The custodial parent can file HOH and can even get EIC, although you take dependency exemption.
Nope. One of the main requirements of filing HOH is that the child must live with you more than half the year:
http://www.irs.gov/publications/p501/ar0鈥?/a>
No, To claim Head of Household you must be the single support of a dependent in your home.
Leslie
As long as you have a qualified dependent, then you can claim HOH. Who the child actually lives with is irrelevant. Your son qualifies as a dependent for HOH purposes.
Where can i get my ears pierced without a parent or legal guardian?
it must be somewhere in Maryland but if you don't know of anywhere i can get it done without a parent at least tell me a good place to get it done....Please and Thanks!!!!!!!Where can i get my ears pierced without a parent or legal guardian?
i think claires but you might have to be 16 without a parent.. im not totally sure thoughWhere can i get my ears pierced without a parent or legal guardian?
doing it yourself, but I really don't suggest you do that..
why would you be needing to do it without a parent anyways?
if your not 16 no where will do it with out parent or legal guardian sorry x
claires, i think.dental cosmetics
i think claires but you might have to be 16 without a parent.. im not totally sure thoughWhere can i get my ears pierced without a parent or legal guardian?
doing it yourself, but I really don't suggest you do that..
why would you be needing to do it without a parent anyways?
if your not 16 no where will do it with out parent or legal guardian sorry x
claires, i think.
Why is it considered a bad thing for people over 21 to still be living with their parent(s)?
Why is it in the U.S. it's considered a bad thing for someone over 21 to be living with their parents when in many other countries like in India, most people live with their parents until they get married and start having kids of their own, sometimes when they reach their 30's.Why is it considered a bad thing for people over 21 to still be living with their parent(s)?
It is considered a bad thing for people over 21 living with their folks because young adults, 18 to their early twenties, are suppose to be independent.
I used be a creative writing major at San Francisco State University.
The college I attended was a commuter school.
Many SF State students lived in the campus dorms or in the apartments by the school.
They were ONLY able to live in the dorms or in the apartments by the campus because they had rich folks.
Those students may look at themselves as ';rich'; but they're actually free-loaders, poor and spoiled.
I had to stay at my folks home since I was born was raised in San Francisco.
My folks did not want to apply to another college besides SF State.
Currently, many college graduates right now are unemployed and are living with their folks again.
What's embarrassing is people being kicked out of their folks home or having to move back into their folks home after blowing a lot of money (earned from their jobs or overspending with their credit cards).
It's bad if a young person lives with their folks and does not bother to work, help out with chores (cleaning, cooking), selfish (buying groceries for him or herself) and is ungrateful.
My eldest sister lived with my folks until she was 29.
They never made her pay rent.
My parents paid for her full tuition at San Francisco State along with her textbooks.
She ONLY bought groceries for herself and rarely did any cleaning in the house.
When she was moving out, she never said, ';Thank you'; to my parents.
I have two male cousins on my father's side that have never bothered to find jobs. They are both in their late twenties.
I don't look down at people that are over 21 as failures for living with their folks if they have trouble making ends meet with one job or have trouble looking for a job.
I hope that this helps and take care of yourself. I mean this. ~ AlanWhy is it considered a bad thing for people over 21 to still be living with their parent(s)?
Americans strongly believe in being an individual. Not that being an individual is bad, its just they think that also means being able to support themselves completely. How many forefather's stories have you heard about ';my great grandfather came to this country with nothing but the clothes on his back';.
that's all well and good. but does that mean every generation has to follow suit? not necessarily, but there is a romanticized ideal of being able to accomplish life's trials on your own. i'm south east asian and i see no harm in adult age kids living with their parents. its not like they're all leeches or something, asian families with adult kids at home contribute to the family's income as much or more than the patriarch or matriarch does.
it's a simple case of culture clash. interesting, huh?
The US has a higher focus on individualism and the nuclear family rather than the extended family. The reason that older individuals still living with their parents is a cliche of a failure is that people often associate that particular aspect of their living arrangement with lack of a career and an unwillingness to contribute to the family in a meaningful (or sometimes even trivial) way.
I personally don't look down on people who are living with their parents when they are in their 20's... as long as they are trying to better themselves.
My husband, 2 kids and I are currently living with my parents. we are very grateful they let us live here. We both are going to school, and my husband works full time at nights. We are saving money to buy a house of our own while we finish up school. I don't know how we would do it (and at this pace) if it wasn't for my parents!
It is considered a bad thing for people over 21 living with their folks because young adults, 18 to their early twenties, are suppose to be independent.
I used be a creative writing major at San Francisco State University.
The college I attended was a commuter school.
Many SF State students lived in the campus dorms or in the apartments by the school.
They were ONLY able to live in the dorms or in the apartments by the campus because they had rich folks.
Those students may look at themselves as ';rich'; but they're actually free-loaders, poor and spoiled.
I had to stay at my folks home since I was born was raised in San Francisco.
My folks did not want to apply to another college besides SF State.
Currently, many college graduates right now are unemployed and are living with their folks again.
What's embarrassing is people being kicked out of their folks home or having to move back into their folks home after blowing a lot of money (earned from their jobs or overspending with their credit cards).
It's bad if a young person lives with their folks and does not bother to work, help out with chores (cleaning, cooking), selfish (buying groceries for him or herself) and is ungrateful.
My eldest sister lived with my folks until she was 29.
They never made her pay rent.
My parents paid for her full tuition at San Francisco State along with her textbooks.
She ONLY bought groceries for herself and rarely did any cleaning in the house.
When she was moving out, she never said, ';Thank you'; to my parents.
I have two male cousins on my father's side that have never bothered to find jobs. They are both in their late twenties.
I don't look down at people that are over 21 as failures for living with their folks if they have trouble making ends meet with one job or have trouble looking for a job.
I hope that this helps and take care of yourself. I mean this. ~ AlanWhy is it considered a bad thing for people over 21 to still be living with their parent(s)?
Americans strongly believe in being an individual. Not that being an individual is bad, its just they think that also means being able to support themselves completely. How many forefather's stories have you heard about ';my great grandfather came to this country with nothing but the clothes on his back';.
that's all well and good. but does that mean every generation has to follow suit? not necessarily, but there is a romanticized ideal of being able to accomplish life's trials on your own. i'm south east asian and i see no harm in adult age kids living with their parents. its not like they're all leeches or something, asian families with adult kids at home contribute to the family's income as much or more than the patriarch or matriarch does.
it's a simple case of culture clash. interesting, huh?
The US has a higher focus on individualism and the nuclear family rather than the extended family. The reason that older individuals still living with their parents is a cliche of a failure is that people often associate that particular aspect of their living arrangement with lack of a career and an unwillingness to contribute to the family in a meaningful (or sometimes even trivial) way.
I personally don't look down on people who are living with their parents when they are in their 20's... as long as they are trying to better themselves.
My husband, 2 kids and I are currently living with my parents. we are very grateful they let us live here. We both are going to school, and my husband works full time at nights. We are saving money to buy a house of our own while we finish up school. I don't know how we would do it (and at this pace) if it wasn't for my parents!
How would you respond (or have you responded) to parent complaints and accusations? ?
A parent comes to you and complains that what you are teaching his/her child is irrelevant to the child's needs. How do you respond?How would you respond (or have you responded) to parent complaints and accusations? ?
The content that teachers teach is decided by those who write the curriculum, not by teachers. I would explain that to the parent, and explain why I have chosen the teaching methods that I am using.
If it is a special needs child, with a modified program, then I would ask the parents to express to me what they feel the child's needs are. I would share with them the results of any assessments the school has done, and let them know about the child's daily work routines.
If the parent is right, then I would collaborate with them, and the school team, to rewrite the child's IEP. How would you respond (or have you responded) to parent complaints and accusations? ?
I would ask what those needs are and how I am not meeting them. If they didn't have a specific reason, I would tell them that I will need specific information in order to understand what their child needs. If they said something bogus to them, I would explain calmly what was correct. If they wanted to continue to be angry and complained to the principal or something, I would think about how to justify and make a sound argument of what the childs needs are and how they are being met. I'm not a teacher, but deal with complaints and unreasonable requests allll the time at a university.
i agree with tejas^^^^^^^
The content that teachers teach is decided by those who write the curriculum, not by teachers. I would explain that to the parent, and explain why I have chosen the teaching methods that I am using.
If it is a special needs child, with a modified program, then I would ask the parents to express to me what they feel the child's needs are. I would share with them the results of any assessments the school has done, and let them know about the child's daily work routines.
If the parent is right, then I would collaborate with them, and the school team, to rewrite the child's IEP. How would you respond (or have you responded) to parent complaints and accusations? ?
I would ask what those needs are and how I am not meeting them. If they didn't have a specific reason, I would tell them that I will need specific information in order to understand what their child needs. If they said something bogus to them, I would explain calmly what was correct. If they wanted to continue to be angry and complained to the principal or something, I would think about how to justify and make a sound argument of what the childs needs are and how they are being met. I'm not a teacher, but deal with complaints and unreasonable requests allll the time at a university.
i agree with tejas^^^^^^^
If my parent moves to a different state w/me, can I get in state tuition the following year?
I'm thinking about moving to NC, but tuition is outrageous. If a parent were to move with me and file their taxes in 02/07 can I get in state tuition for the fall of 07?If my parent moves to a different state w/me, can I get in state tuition the following year?
Contact the school's financial aid department to make sure. I was moving from Ohio to Texas and because I'd be a TA I'd be considered instate automatically. Usually you have to be in the state for an entire year though.If my parent moves to a different state w/me, can I get in state tuition the following year?
It depends entirely on how each state defines residency. But I would tend to say yes.
you should check with the school financial aid department. there are dozens of rules and stipulations, and if you break any of them, you pay full price! So check with them to be sure.
Contact the school's financial aid department to make sure. I was moving from Ohio to Texas and because I'd be a TA I'd be considered instate automatically. Usually you have to be in the state for an entire year though.If my parent moves to a different state w/me, can I get in state tuition the following year?
It depends entirely on how each state defines residency. But I would tend to say yes.
you should check with the school financial aid department. there are dozens of rules and stipulations, and if you break any of them, you pay full price! So check with them to be sure.
In the state of Texas, what recourse does a parent have if their student has been hit unfairly?
This was not a corporal punishment incident. It was a teacher that stated that this is what he uses to get the students' attention. What is the reporting agency that can deal with teacher misconduct? In a small town, locals cover up for each other. Along with the steps of a process to follow, can a citizen have an outside agency to report to or seek help from鈥攁side from obtaining a lawyer? Looking for all possible recourses to follow. It appears thus far, that the teacher, the teacher's immediate superior, the principal and on up have opted to sweep it under the rug. Please help. What transpired was absolute wrong!In the state of Texas, what recourse does a parent have if their student has been hit unfairly?
In Georgia it is called the Georgia Professional Standards Commission. They oversee all districts and each superintendent is accountable to them.
Check to see if Texas has a similar commission. It may be called something else. There is an agency that every school superintendent must answer to. It is that agency that you must write to. Make sure that you document names and dates of all convos with school. You can't just bypass your immediate chain of command or they will not even listen to your complaint. You should also contact a news station. Check and see if they have one of those ';What's the deal?'; type of human interests sections.
Also, get a copy of the school handbook and go thoroughly over the discipline section of the book. Look for the violation. Go armed with this info when you speak with the principal etc...Take a witness with you. Take a tape recorder if necessary.
Have in mind what recompense you actually want. Your best bet might be to demand that your child be placed in another class and if the principal bucks then tell him that you are concerned for your child's safety and that if they don't put her into another class you will be happy to file for a restraining order against that teacher and have a basis for a law suit against the school for child endangerment.
Keep in mind that your child will be in this school and there may be backlash. Are you truly prepared? Your outrage is justified but the cost will be high. Have your child removed from that person's class. It will send a message.
You must immediately file an assault report naming this teacher. If you don't do this in a timely fashion then the truth becomes watered down and you won't have credibility.
Good Luck
';ASSAULT'; is when you are attacked but you don't fight back.
';BATTERY'; is when both parties engage in physical altercation ; but instigator will be the one most likely charged. The other can claim self defense.In the state of Texas, what recourse does a parent have if their student has been hit unfairly?
TY. It is nice to hear that your child has such a supportive parent. 2 many suffer alone. I wish you both well and don't let this incident take over your lives.
Anyone ever hits my kid they get a visit from me they don't want. I don't care if I do time as a result or not. Mess with my kids, and I hurt you, period.
Shut up and stop being a whining baby. If you don't like it, you can move somewhere like California where they coddle whiners like you.
Speak with the Ministry of Education on guidelines. If found that the teachers and all others are abusing their authorities, write a formal letter of complaint.
Go get an attorney NOW, and cease all communications with the school. Talk ONLY to your attorney about the incident. You can file a civil action for Battery on behalf of the minor. There may be statutes you can use to file under as well. Also, there may be a criminal charge in TX for this. Go see an attorney NOW.
Battery is generally an actionable tort for which a civil suit can be filed and, if won, may include punitive damages. Seek legal counsel.
In Georgia it is called the Georgia Professional Standards Commission. They oversee all districts and each superintendent is accountable to them.
Check to see if Texas has a similar commission. It may be called something else. There is an agency that every school superintendent must answer to. It is that agency that you must write to. Make sure that you document names and dates of all convos with school. You can't just bypass your immediate chain of command or they will not even listen to your complaint. You should also contact a news station. Check and see if they have one of those ';What's the deal?'; type of human interests sections.
Also, get a copy of the school handbook and go thoroughly over the discipline section of the book. Look for the violation. Go armed with this info when you speak with the principal etc...Take a witness with you. Take a tape recorder if necessary.
Have in mind what recompense you actually want. Your best bet might be to demand that your child be placed in another class and if the principal bucks then tell him that you are concerned for your child's safety and that if they don't put her into another class you will be happy to file for a restraining order against that teacher and have a basis for a law suit against the school for child endangerment.
Keep in mind that your child will be in this school and there may be backlash. Are you truly prepared? Your outrage is justified but the cost will be high. Have your child removed from that person's class. It will send a message.
You must immediately file an assault report naming this teacher. If you don't do this in a timely fashion then the truth becomes watered down and you won't have credibility.
Good Luck
';ASSAULT'; is when you are attacked but you don't fight back.
';BATTERY'; is when both parties engage in physical altercation ; but instigator will be the one most likely charged. The other can claim self defense.In the state of Texas, what recourse does a parent have if their student has been hit unfairly?
TY. It is nice to hear that your child has such a supportive parent. 2 many suffer alone. I wish you both well and don't let this incident take over your lives.
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Anyone ever hits my kid they get a visit from me they don't want. I don't care if I do time as a result or not. Mess with my kids, and I hurt you, period.
Shut up and stop being a whining baby. If you don't like it, you can move somewhere like California where they coddle whiners like you.
Speak with the Ministry of Education on guidelines. If found that the teachers and all others are abusing their authorities, write a formal letter of complaint.
Go get an attorney NOW, and cease all communications with the school. Talk ONLY to your attorney about the incident. You can file a civil action for Battery on behalf of the minor. There may be statutes you can use to file under as well. Also, there may be a criminal charge in TX for this. Go see an attorney NOW.
Battery is generally an actionable tort for which a civil suit can be filed and, if won, may include punitive damages. Seek legal counsel.
Can a parent withold medical insurance from their child?
I am a seventeen-year-old girl who was kicked out of my house when I was 16. I have been living alone since then and am now six months away from turning 18. I am not emancipated because of the lengthy process and cost of an attorney. I recently came under the need of medical attention, but my single-parent mother withheld the Medicare in my name from me. Is this legal? Is there any way I can obtain my medical insurance?Can a parent withold medical insurance from their child?
Yes it is legal since you do not live under her roof. At 17 you don't really need to be emancipated especially since you are so close to becoming 18 which is adulthood. I suggest you try to get Medicaid, because your mother no longer HAS to be financially responsible for you.dental cosmetics
Yes it is legal since you do not live under her roof. At 17 you don't really need to be emancipated especially since you are so close to becoming 18 which is adulthood. I suggest you try to get Medicaid, because your mother no longer HAS to be financially responsible for you.
What do recurring dreams about having sex with a parent mean?
I know single dreams about sex can just mean general arousal or a need to be like the person in the dream, but what about when you keep having the same highly arousing dream about someone so off limits as a family member like father mother sister brother daughter son? no history of incest abuse.What do recurring dreams about having sex with a parent mean?
You are right; explicit sex in a dream means first of all arousal. But this arousal may be non-sexual, in other words it may signify that you like or indeed love the person of your dream especially. Having sex in dreams thus means first and foremost 'getting on' particularly well. The dream speaks in metaphors. 'Getting on' is a metaphor which is derived from sexual interaction. On the other hand the dream may portray a totally innocent action which in end may mean sexual interaction. I believe that all metaphors are invented by the dream. If you dream that you are on the roof of your house you will feel really 'high' on the day following the dream. Explicit sex in a dream also promises an emotional high that will not necessarliy result in physical contact.
Recurring dreams occur because there is something especially important in its message. A more usual recurring dream is that you keep missing the bus. This would suggest that you keep missing an important opportunity like getting a new job. Should you get that new job the dream would no longer occur.
If your dream means that you love that parent or sibling especially much, you would of course not want it to stop occuring. I feel sure that you know exactly what your dream means for you must know how you really feel about the person in question.What do recurring dreams about having sex with a parent mean?
I keep having the same dreams!!
You need to move out.
yes my son told me he dreams about me,am really scared,r u also facing with same problem ?
would love to chat with u,my id is terri_734@yahoo.com.au
It means your imagination is running a little wild. Your hormones may need satisfaction in other ways.
happens to me sometimes. it freaks me out and i wake up.
Depends on if you like Fraud ian or Juanian phycology!
Actually it has to do with who you have gone to for answers in the past... don't worry about it... just ask them!
ME!
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dont ever dream about it man..........cos its so sick
I hope that you haven't been having such dreams, but maybe you know someone who has?
You are right; explicit sex in a dream means first of all arousal. But this arousal may be non-sexual, in other words it may signify that you like or indeed love the person of your dream especially. Having sex in dreams thus means first and foremost 'getting on' particularly well. The dream speaks in metaphors. 'Getting on' is a metaphor which is derived from sexual interaction. On the other hand the dream may portray a totally innocent action which in end may mean sexual interaction. I believe that all metaphors are invented by the dream. If you dream that you are on the roof of your house you will feel really 'high' on the day following the dream. Explicit sex in a dream also promises an emotional high that will not necessarliy result in physical contact.
Recurring dreams occur because there is something especially important in its message. A more usual recurring dream is that you keep missing the bus. This would suggest that you keep missing an important opportunity like getting a new job. Should you get that new job the dream would no longer occur.
If your dream means that you love that parent or sibling especially much, you would of course not want it to stop occuring. I feel sure that you know exactly what your dream means for you must know how you really feel about the person in question.What do recurring dreams about having sex with a parent mean?
I keep having the same dreams!!
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You need to move out.
yes my son told me he dreams about me,am really scared,r u also facing with same problem ?
would love to chat with u,my id is terri_734@yahoo.com.au
It means your imagination is running a little wild. Your hormones may need satisfaction in other ways.
happens to me sometimes. it freaks me out and i wake up.
Depends on if you like Fraud ian or Juanian phycology!
Actually it has to do with who you have gone to for answers in the past... don't worry about it... just ask them!
ME!
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dont ever dream about it man..........cos its so sick
I hope that you haven't been having such dreams, but maybe you know someone who has?
When a parent passes, children or bank get the house?
When a parent passes away and wills his or her home to their kids, do the kids have to qualify for the loan to pay the house off? If the house isnt paid off, does the house go to the bank?When a parent passes, children or bank get the house?
Depends on children's age, weather trust was in place, what was still owed on the house if trust was in place, if there was a an executor for those trusts if the kids were minors. And so on. When a parent passes, children or bank get the house?
Houses are parts of estates and unless there is a trust involved that passes title of the house from the parent to the heirs, there are taxes and probate fees and alot of other costs involved which is why trusts are so important. A will only says who the deceased wants to have the property but wills can (and often are) contested which means time goes by and the attorney's clock continues to tick, tick, tick. If it's not too late, set up a trust. The house will only go to the bank if it's foreclosed upon. Don't let that happen. If there's any equity in the house, keep up on the payments until the probate time/costs are over with. Consult an attorney. This is a legal matter.
The loan has to be paid off as part of the probate process before the title can pass to the heirs. Often, that means they will have to get a new loan in their name. The alternative is for the estate to sell the house, pay off the loan and the heirs receive any remaining equity from the sale.
Depends on children's age, weather trust was in place, what was still owed on the house if trust was in place, if there was a an executor for those trusts if the kids were minors. And so on. When a parent passes, children or bank get the house?
Houses are parts of estates and unless there is a trust involved that passes title of the house from the parent to the heirs, there are taxes and probate fees and alot of other costs involved which is why trusts are so important. A will only says who the deceased wants to have the property but wills can (and often are) contested which means time goes by and the attorney's clock continues to tick, tick, tick. If it's not too late, set up a trust. The house will only go to the bank if it's foreclosed upon. Don't let that happen. If there's any equity in the house, keep up on the payments until the probate time/costs are over with. Consult an attorney. This is a legal matter.
The loan has to be paid off as part of the probate process before the title can pass to the heirs. Often, that means they will have to get a new loan in their name. The alternative is for the estate to sell the house, pay off the loan and the heirs receive any remaining equity from the sale.
What are the essential characteristics of being a good parent?
Communication is an essential ingredient within every contented family.
To my mind, everything revolves around listening, but you can't listen if you do not communicate
I may be in my 50's, but I still remember my teenage years and the fact that adults never listened to what we teenagers were trying to say.
I tried very hard with my own kids. I did my level best to listen. And guess what? I suddenly found myself not just HEARING what they were trying to tell me, I UNDERSTOOD what they wanted to say, and I was able to empathise with them. I remembered my own feelings of confusion and as a result could feel theirs.
My eldest son is now in his thirties and my youngest is almost 26, while my daughter is in the middle. I was and am an exceedingly lucky parent.
During their teenage years, there was never any problem as regards being cheeky, rude, running-away, or being told that they hated me. In fact, I truly enjoyed their teenage years. They talked, I listened. I talked and they listened.
Something else I discovered during those wonderful years. Our children can be, and are very knowledgeable and wise about a great many subjects, perhaps not the same subjects that we are wise and knowledgeable about, but then, they are growing up in a different time than we did.
Please listen to your kids so that they can communicate with you and then you in turn with them.
Other than than that, always show a calm facade, never ever let them know that they have shocked you about anything, no matter what you might truly feel. Only discuss or deal with the matter at a later stage when you are truly calm,
Look after yourself and be safe
Sandy
http://www.moms-home-safety.comWhat are the essential characteristics of being a good parent?
i'm not a parent...but I would say unconditional love, support your child in what ever they decide, discipline whenever it is required too..Really, be a good role model...if you are a good person than your child will be a good person....What are the essential characteristics of being a good parent?
listen to them when needed but always be consistent if you break your rules once or dont go through with what you say then you lose that ground of them knowing that you will do what you say !
love %26amp; patience
Patience, unconditional love, understanding and judicious discipline when needed.
for me being a good parent its all about, rules keeping hem being a good listener,love them understand them, treat them with respect, have patience and still being able of discipline them. Take good care of them i think they call it tough love. And it has nothing to do with spanking a child I strongly believe that when you spank a child it is you who has lost control not the child. Being consistant with the rules and taking with them all will be fine. Comunication is the key.
being there when your child needs you. love them. take care of them. be a parent, not their friend, that doesn't work.
Good question. Here are my thoughts....
Being attentive to a child's needs, loving them unconditionally, playing with them every chance you get, being patient with them, teaching them what's important, leading by example, and being consistant and fair with discipline.
Parenthood is one of the most fulfilling experiences any species can have. There is a natural instinct that seems to come naturally to a new parent, but there are bits of advice that can help when you are challenged in the growing up years. The most important thing however, that any parents can instill in their child, is a sense of being loved. Remember also, that parenting does not stop when when a child grows. Being a good parent remains for life.
Steps
1. Set rules that would apply to any person in order for them to lead a happy and productive life. Be clear and balanced in communicating these to your kids. Show them by example, not only by verbally teaching. Children have a tendency to become what they see and hear. It is rare, but does happen, that a child will, of their own accord and strength, break out of a negative and hateful home environment.
2.
Talk to your child when he or she acts out in a harmful and spiteful manner. Be assertive, yet kind, pointing out what they have wrongly done. Be consistent in your teachings and do not let your child manipulate you into making exceptions. When enforcing consequences never act in anger. Remember that children imitate their parents verbal expressions. Teach them by showing them how to react in certain situations. Set boundaries so to teach them that they have limitations. By doing so, they actually get a sense of being loved and cared about by their parents. They might rebel at those boundaries, but inwardly enjoy knowing that they are loved by concerned parents.
3. Take interest in your child and be involved in his activities. Really listen to them, when they talk to you. Make them understand, by you actually telling them, that they can and should come to you when they have a problem. When they do, do not judge them but truly listen to them and guide them. Do not say one thing, and then do another. If you tell your children, that they can openly tell you if they have tried drugs, and then, when they talk to you about it,do not suddenly become angry at them. This is a moment for you to tell them, that you understand that they wanted to try it. Explain to them, calmly all the dangers involved with taking drugs. Omit nothing at all! Then, still remaining calm, tell them that now they know all the dangers, that they can make their own decision about taking drugs and walk away. They will think about what you had said, will understand all the perils of drugs, will not take them, and trust you in the future to help them and listen to them, without anger or judging them. You have now established a good relationship with your child.
4.
Respect their boundaries as you would want them to respect yours. Even a young child will understand and abide by the limitations set upon them. Instill in them, a sense of belonging, and of being loved. When you teach a child that your room, is out of boundaries to them, respect the same with their room. Allow them to feel that once they enter their room they can know that no one will look through their drawers, or read their diaries. At the same time, teach them to clean their room, and make their beds every morning. Even the youngest of children, should and can learn to tidy their room and put their toys away in the box at the end of the day. As your child grows, give them more responsibility, and at the same time give him or her more privacy.
5. Be a role model and try to live by the rules you set. It is difficult to teach a child the reasons they should not smoke, when they see you smoking. At the same time, teach them moderation, and responsibility that goes with, drinking, once they are old enough to be interested in it. It is perfectly normal to see you drinking at a party, or perhaps to have wine before a meal. This way they will not feel that they have to sneak around, when the time comes that they also would like to sip a bit of wine. Make sure, however, they aware of at what age you feel they can enjoy a drink with friends, and that they know about having a designated driver, if they drink at a party. Teach them about 'never drinking while driving', and 'never be a passenger in a car with someone who has been drinking'. If you are not open about these, they will sneak around and do it anyway. This way, you have established a relationship with your child, you have taught them to always be open about what they do, and that you trust them, and will always be there to help and assist them. You must be a parent first and friend second, to gain the trust of your children.
6. Never compare your children with others or even with siblings. Each child is and individual and unique. By not accepting this and by invalidating them and not recognizing them as being thus can tear down a child. Recognize each for their differences, and instill in each the desire to pursue their own interests and dreams.
7. Never shame or embarrass your children in front of other people. If they have done something wrong, if they have hit a child when they should not have, take them aside, and teach them privately. Teach them what is right and wrong, and then be stern, but not cross, when you tell them that you expect them never to do that again.
8.
Find some time to spend with them, and be with them alone. Set aside a day to spend with them, to go to the park, or theme parks. Perhaps a day to take a trip to a museum or a library depending on their age interests of course, but make them feel that they are a part of your life, and you are a part of theirs. Dinner times, talk to them. Turn off the TV, and speak about childhood things, and listen to them closely. Meals times should be family time. If, because of job responsibilities you cannot have dinner at an early hour every day, make sure that the time you do eat with them, is their time. At the same time, share your experiences with them. Allow them to be a part of your life, even when you are away from them.
9. Think about your childhood, and the mistakes YOUR parents made. Try to avoid making terrible mistakes
10. Parents should not fight or argue in front of their children even if you think they are sleeping. Save your arguments for the time you have alone with each other. Children feel insecure, and fear divorce, when they hear parents bicker. They learn by what they hear, and soon siblings will learn how to fight with each other. Teach them by showing them, that while people do not and probably should now always agree, there are peaceful ways to discuss their differences, by talking, and not fighting.
11. Try not to take sides when your children are quarrelling for fear of showing them favoritism. When you see them becoming extremely angry at each other, step in and discuss with them the problem they are having. See if you can help them, by not showing that one is wrong and the other right. Find a solution so that both of them can agree to terms, and walk away happy.
12. Never accuse others for your failures. Explore the mistakes which caused such failures and share them with your children. This will encourage their own introspection when they taste failures later in their life.
13.
Keep giving positive strokes. A gentle cuddle, a little encouragement, appreciation, approval or even a smile can go a long way to boost the confidence and well-being of your children. Give them this in abundance or else they may wander in search of a substitute by joining a crowd.
14. Teach your children that it is okay for them to be different and they do not have to follow the crowd. Teach them right from wrong when then are young, and they will always be able to make their own decisions, instead of listening to others.
Tips
* Remember that your child is not an extension of yourself. Your child is an individual under your care, not a chance for you to relive your life through them.
* Attend school functions. Do homework with them. Visit their teacher at open house. Even if it means taking some time away from work. Remember the children grow fast, and soon will be on their own. The time you have now with them, should bypass the time you have at work.
* Show them love, respect, and trust. Children should be very familiar with the consequences of their actions.
Warnings
* Do not be afraid to be a 'parent'. Teach them the rules of the house, teach them the laws of the country, teach them how to be safe, and if you are religious minded, take them to the church/synagogue/mosque/etc. of your denomination. Do your best, be their friend, but never let them forget you are their 'parent'. If you give them a punishment, do not back down because they might plead with you or cry. Remain steadfast and they will thank you later. However, always allow them to be secure in your love and concern for them.
Hope it helps.Good Luck!!
):-)
Love, respect, patience, and knowledge.
Love your child and be willing to do whatever you need to do to keep that child safe healthy and happy
Respect you child as an individual.
Have more patience then they have fight. When they are being difficult you need to be able to wait them out and still keep your cool.
The more you know about your childs surrounding and the people they come in contact with the better. Read books on what you don't know and look for ways to improve your parenting skill. You will both benifit.
give your kids your time. not your beer
For me, I teach with my head and my heart rather than with my hand or belt.
Avoid overindulgence.
Protect them by giving them a safe environment.
I feel good about myself, therfore it reflects on my children.
I guide and teach my children through example which means I respect them, set firm limits in a warm demanding way.
I am not permissive at all.
I don't threaten, insult, humiliate, control, micromanage or teach through fear by hitting.
I have a high level of responsiveness and praise their efforts.
I believe that both the child and parent have certain rights and their needs should be equally met.
I make sure my children's social, emotional, physical and intellectual needs are met.
I teach them to respect others.
I shower them with hugs and kisses every day.
My hubby believes in this too so we make a great team.
So we both feel we are good parents because we put our marriage first and our children join our lives. We have lots of laughs and good times!
We nurture our bond and that reflects on them to have a healthy relationship with their spouses when they become adults.
Hope this is inspiring to you.
To my mind, everything revolves around listening, but you can't listen if you do not communicate
I may be in my 50's, but I still remember my teenage years and the fact that adults never listened to what we teenagers were trying to say.
I tried very hard with my own kids. I did my level best to listen. And guess what? I suddenly found myself not just HEARING what they were trying to tell me, I UNDERSTOOD what they wanted to say, and I was able to empathise with them. I remembered my own feelings of confusion and as a result could feel theirs.
My eldest son is now in his thirties and my youngest is almost 26, while my daughter is in the middle. I was and am an exceedingly lucky parent.
During their teenage years, there was never any problem as regards being cheeky, rude, running-away, or being told that they hated me. In fact, I truly enjoyed their teenage years. They talked, I listened. I talked and they listened.
Something else I discovered during those wonderful years. Our children can be, and are very knowledgeable and wise about a great many subjects, perhaps not the same subjects that we are wise and knowledgeable about, but then, they are growing up in a different time than we did.
Please listen to your kids so that they can communicate with you and then you in turn with them.
Other than than that, always show a calm facade, never ever let them know that they have shocked you about anything, no matter what you might truly feel. Only discuss or deal with the matter at a later stage when you are truly calm,
Look after yourself and be safe
Sandy
http://www.moms-home-safety.comWhat are the essential characteristics of being a good parent?
i'm not a parent...but I would say unconditional love, support your child in what ever they decide, discipline whenever it is required too..Really, be a good role model...if you are a good person than your child will be a good person....What are the essential characteristics of being a good parent?
listen to them when needed but always be consistent if you break your rules once or dont go through with what you say then you lose that ground of them knowing that you will do what you say !
love %26amp; patience
Patience, unconditional love, understanding and judicious discipline when needed.
for me being a good parent its all about, rules keeping hem being a good listener,love them understand them, treat them with respect, have patience and still being able of discipline them. Take good care of them i think they call it tough love. And it has nothing to do with spanking a child I strongly believe that when you spank a child it is you who has lost control not the child. Being consistant with the rules and taking with them all will be fine. Comunication is the key.
being there when your child needs you. love them. take care of them. be a parent, not their friend, that doesn't work.
Good question. Here are my thoughts....
Being attentive to a child's needs, loving them unconditionally, playing with them every chance you get, being patient with them, teaching them what's important, leading by example, and being consistant and fair with discipline.
Parenthood is one of the most fulfilling experiences any species can have. There is a natural instinct that seems to come naturally to a new parent, but there are bits of advice that can help when you are challenged in the growing up years. The most important thing however, that any parents can instill in their child, is a sense of being loved. Remember also, that parenting does not stop when when a child grows. Being a good parent remains for life.
Steps
1. Set rules that would apply to any person in order for them to lead a happy and productive life. Be clear and balanced in communicating these to your kids. Show them by example, not only by verbally teaching. Children have a tendency to become what they see and hear. It is rare, but does happen, that a child will, of their own accord and strength, break out of a negative and hateful home environment.
2.
Talk to your child when he or she acts out in a harmful and spiteful manner. Be assertive, yet kind, pointing out what they have wrongly done. Be consistent in your teachings and do not let your child manipulate you into making exceptions. When enforcing consequences never act in anger. Remember that children imitate their parents verbal expressions. Teach them by showing them how to react in certain situations. Set boundaries so to teach them that they have limitations. By doing so, they actually get a sense of being loved and cared about by their parents. They might rebel at those boundaries, but inwardly enjoy knowing that they are loved by concerned parents.
3. Take interest in your child and be involved in his activities. Really listen to them, when they talk to you. Make them understand, by you actually telling them, that they can and should come to you when they have a problem. When they do, do not judge them but truly listen to them and guide them. Do not say one thing, and then do another. If you tell your children, that they can openly tell you if they have tried drugs, and then, when they talk to you about it,do not suddenly become angry at them. This is a moment for you to tell them, that you understand that they wanted to try it. Explain to them, calmly all the dangers involved with taking drugs. Omit nothing at all! Then, still remaining calm, tell them that now they know all the dangers, that they can make their own decision about taking drugs and walk away. They will think about what you had said, will understand all the perils of drugs, will not take them, and trust you in the future to help them and listen to them, without anger or judging them. You have now established a good relationship with your child.
4.
Respect their boundaries as you would want them to respect yours. Even a young child will understand and abide by the limitations set upon them. Instill in them, a sense of belonging, and of being loved. When you teach a child that your room, is out of boundaries to them, respect the same with their room. Allow them to feel that once they enter their room they can know that no one will look through their drawers, or read their diaries. At the same time, teach them to clean their room, and make their beds every morning. Even the youngest of children, should and can learn to tidy their room and put their toys away in the box at the end of the day. As your child grows, give them more responsibility, and at the same time give him or her more privacy.
5. Be a role model and try to live by the rules you set. It is difficult to teach a child the reasons they should not smoke, when they see you smoking. At the same time, teach them moderation, and responsibility that goes with, drinking, once they are old enough to be interested in it. It is perfectly normal to see you drinking at a party, or perhaps to have wine before a meal. This way they will not feel that they have to sneak around, when the time comes that they also would like to sip a bit of wine. Make sure, however, they aware of at what age you feel they can enjoy a drink with friends, and that they know about having a designated driver, if they drink at a party. Teach them about 'never drinking while driving', and 'never be a passenger in a car with someone who has been drinking'. If you are not open about these, they will sneak around and do it anyway. This way, you have established a relationship with your child, you have taught them to always be open about what they do, and that you trust them, and will always be there to help and assist them. You must be a parent first and friend second, to gain the trust of your children.
6. Never compare your children with others or even with siblings. Each child is and individual and unique. By not accepting this and by invalidating them and not recognizing them as being thus can tear down a child. Recognize each for their differences, and instill in each the desire to pursue their own interests and dreams.
7. Never shame or embarrass your children in front of other people. If they have done something wrong, if they have hit a child when they should not have, take them aside, and teach them privately. Teach them what is right and wrong, and then be stern, but not cross, when you tell them that you expect them never to do that again.
8.
Find some time to spend with them, and be with them alone. Set aside a day to spend with them, to go to the park, or theme parks. Perhaps a day to take a trip to a museum or a library depending on their age interests of course, but make them feel that they are a part of your life, and you are a part of theirs. Dinner times, talk to them. Turn off the TV, and speak about childhood things, and listen to them closely. Meals times should be family time. If, because of job responsibilities you cannot have dinner at an early hour every day, make sure that the time you do eat with them, is their time. At the same time, share your experiences with them. Allow them to be a part of your life, even when you are away from them.
9. Think about your childhood, and the mistakes YOUR parents made. Try to avoid making terrible mistakes
10. Parents should not fight or argue in front of their children even if you think they are sleeping. Save your arguments for the time you have alone with each other. Children feel insecure, and fear divorce, when they hear parents bicker. They learn by what they hear, and soon siblings will learn how to fight with each other. Teach them by showing them, that while people do not and probably should now always agree, there are peaceful ways to discuss their differences, by talking, and not fighting.
11. Try not to take sides when your children are quarrelling for fear of showing them favoritism. When you see them becoming extremely angry at each other, step in and discuss with them the problem they are having. See if you can help them, by not showing that one is wrong and the other right. Find a solution so that both of them can agree to terms, and walk away happy.
12. Never accuse others for your failures. Explore the mistakes which caused such failures and share them with your children. This will encourage their own introspection when they taste failures later in their life.
13.
Keep giving positive strokes. A gentle cuddle, a little encouragement, appreciation, approval or even a smile can go a long way to boost the confidence and well-being of your children. Give them this in abundance or else they may wander in search of a substitute by joining a crowd.
14. Teach your children that it is okay for them to be different and they do not have to follow the crowd. Teach them right from wrong when then are young, and they will always be able to make their own decisions, instead of listening to others.
Tips
* Remember that your child is not an extension of yourself. Your child is an individual under your care, not a chance for you to relive your life through them.
* Attend school functions. Do homework with them. Visit their teacher at open house. Even if it means taking some time away from work. Remember the children grow fast, and soon will be on their own. The time you have now with them, should bypass the time you have at work.
* Show them love, respect, and trust. Children should be very familiar with the consequences of their actions.
Warnings
* Do not be afraid to be a 'parent'. Teach them the rules of the house, teach them the laws of the country, teach them how to be safe, and if you are religious minded, take them to the church/synagogue/mosque/etc. of your denomination. Do your best, be their friend, but never let them forget you are their 'parent'. If you give them a punishment, do not back down because they might plead with you or cry. Remain steadfast and they will thank you later. However, always allow them to be secure in your love and concern for them.
Hope it helps.Good Luck!!
):-)
Love, respect, patience, and knowledge.
Love your child and be willing to do whatever you need to do to keep that child safe healthy and happy
Respect you child as an individual.
Have more patience then they have fight. When they are being difficult you need to be able to wait them out and still keep your cool.
The more you know about your childs surrounding and the people they come in contact with the better. Read books on what you don't know and look for ways to improve your parenting skill. You will both benifit.
give your kids your time. not your beer
For me, I teach with my head and my heart rather than with my hand or belt.
Avoid overindulgence.
Protect them by giving them a safe environment.
I feel good about myself, therfore it reflects on my children.
I guide and teach my children through example which means I respect them, set firm limits in a warm demanding way.
I am not permissive at all.
I don't threaten, insult, humiliate, control, micromanage or teach through fear by hitting.
I have a high level of responsiveness and praise their efforts.
I believe that both the child and parent have certain rights and their needs should be equally met.
I make sure my children's social, emotional, physical and intellectual needs are met.
I teach them to respect others.
I shower them with hugs and kisses every day.
My hubby believes in this too so we make a great team.
So we both feel we are good parents because we put our marriage first and our children join our lives. We have lots of laughs and good times!
We nurture our bond and that reflects on them to have a healthy relationship with their spouses when they become adults.
Hope this is inspiring to you.
Can a parent withold medical insurance from their child?
I am a seventeen-year-old girl who was kicked out of my house when I was 16. I have been living alone since then and am now six months away from turning 18. I am not emancipated because of the lengthy process and cost of an attorney. I recently came under the need of medical attention, but my single-parent mother withheld the Medicare in my name from me. Is this legal? Is there any way I can obtain my medical insurance?Can a parent withold medical insurance from their child?
Yes it is legal since you do not live under her roof. At 17 you don't really need to be emancipated especially since you are so close to becoming 18 which is adulthood. I suggest you try to get Medicaid, because your mother no longer HAS to be financially responsible for you.
Yes it is legal since you do not live under her roof. At 17 you don't really need to be emancipated especially since you are so close to becoming 18 which is adulthood. I suggest you try to get Medicaid, because your mother no longer HAS to be financially responsible for you.
What do recurring dreams about having sex with a parent mean?
I know single dreams about sex can just mean general arousal or a need to be like the person in the dream, but what about when you keep having the same highly arousing dream about someone so off limits as a family member like father mother sister brother daughter son? no history of incest abuse.What do recurring dreams about having sex with a parent mean?
You are right; explicit sex in a dream means first of all arousal. But this arousal may be non-sexual, in other words it may signify that you like or indeed love the person of your dream especially. Having sex in dreams thus means first and foremost 'getting on' particularly well. The dream speaks in metaphors. 'Getting on' is a metaphor which is derived from sexual interaction. On the other hand the dream may portray a totally innocent action which in end may mean sexual interaction. I believe that all metaphors are invented by the dream. If you dream that you are on the roof of your house you will feel really 'high' on the day following the dream. Explicit sex in a dream also promises an emotional high that will not necessarliy result in physical contact.
Recurring dreams occur because there is something especially important in its message. A more usual recurring dream is that you keep missing the bus. This would suggest that you keep missing an important opportunity like getting a new job. Should you get that new job the dream would no longer occur.
If your dream means that you love that parent or sibling especially much, you would of course not want it to stop occuring. I feel sure that you know exactly what your dream means for you must know how you really feel about the person in question.What do recurring dreams about having sex with a parent mean?
I keep having the same dreams!!
You need to move out.
yes my son told me he dreams about me,am really scared,r u also facing with same problem ?
would love to chat with u,my id is terri_734@yahoo.com.au
It means your imagination is running a little wild. Your hormones may need satisfaction in other ways.
happens to me sometimes. it freaks me out and i wake up.
Depends on if you like Fraud ian or Juanian phycology!
Actually it has to do with who you have gone to for answers in the past... don't worry about it... just ask them!
ME!
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eeewwww!!!
dont ever dream about it man..........cos its so sick
I hope that you haven't been having such dreams, but maybe you know someone who has?
You are right; explicit sex in a dream means first of all arousal. But this arousal may be non-sexual, in other words it may signify that you like or indeed love the person of your dream especially. Having sex in dreams thus means first and foremost 'getting on' particularly well. The dream speaks in metaphors. 'Getting on' is a metaphor which is derived from sexual interaction. On the other hand the dream may portray a totally innocent action which in end may mean sexual interaction. I believe that all metaphors are invented by the dream. If you dream that you are on the roof of your house you will feel really 'high' on the day following the dream. Explicit sex in a dream also promises an emotional high that will not necessarliy result in physical contact.
Recurring dreams occur because there is something especially important in its message. A more usual recurring dream is that you keep missing the bus. This would suggest that you keep missing an important opportunity like getting a new job. Should you get that new job the dream would no longer occur.
If your dream means that you love that parent or sibling especially much, you would of course not want it to stop occuring. I feel sure that you know exactly what your dream means for you must know how you really feel about the person in question.What do recurring dreams about having sex with a parent mean?
I keep having the same dreams!!
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yes my son told me he dreams about me,am really scared,r u also facing with same problem ?
would love to chat with u,my id is terri_734@yahoo.com.au
It means your imagination is running a little wild. Your hormones may need satisfaction in other ways.
happens to me sometimes. it freaks me out and i wake up.
Depends on if you like Fraud ian or Juanian phycology!
Actually it has to do with who you have gone to for answers in the past... don't worry about it... just ask them!
ME!
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dont ever dream about it man..........cos its so sick
I hope that you haven't been having such dreams, but maybe you know someone who has?
When a parent passes, children or bank get the house?
When a parent passes away and wills his or her home to their kids, do the kids have to qualify for the loan to pay the house off? If the house isnt paid off, does the house go to the bank?When a parent passes, children or bank get the house?
Depends on children's age, weather trust was in place, what was still owed on the house if trust was in place, if there was a an executor for those trusts if the kids were minors. And so on. When a parent passes, children or bank get the house?
Houses are parts of estates and unless there is a trust involved that passes title of the house from the parent to the heirs, there are taxes and probate fees and alot of other costs involved which is why trusts are so important. A will only says who the deceased wants to have the property but wills can (and often are) contested which means time goes by and the attorney's clock continues to tick, tick, tick. If it's not too late, set up a trust. The house will only go to the bank if it's foreclosed upon. Don't let that happen. If there's any equity in the house, keep up on the payments until the probate time/costs are over with. Consult an attorney. This is a legal matter.
The loan has to be paid off as part of the probate process before the title can pass to the heirs. Often, that means they will have to get a new loan in their name. The alternative is for the estate to sell the house, pay off the loan and the heirs receive any remaining equity from the sale.dental cosmetics
Depends on children's age, weather trust was in place, what was still owed on the house if trust was in place, if there was a an executor for those trusts if the kids were minors. And so on. When a parent passes, children or bank get the house?
Houses are parts of estates and unless there is a trust involved that passes title of the house from the parent to the heirs, there are taxes and probate fees and alot of other costs involved which is why trusts are so important. A will only says who the deceased wants to have the property but wills can (and often are) contested which means time goes by and the attorney's clock continues to tick, tick, tick. If it's not too late, set up a trust. The house will only go to the bank if it's foreclosed upon. Don't let that happen. If there's any equity in the house, keep up on the payments until the probate time/costs are over with. Consult an attorney. This is a legal matter.
The loan has to be paid off as part of the probate process before the title can pass to the heirs. Often, that means they will have to get a new loan in their name. The alternative is for the estate to sell the house, pay off the loan and the heirs receive any remaining equity from the sale.
What are the essential characteristics of being a good parent?
Communication is an essential ingredient within every contented family.
To my mind, everything revolves around listening, but you can't listen if you do not communicate
I may be in my 50's, but I still remember my teenage years and the fact that adults never listened to what we teenagers were trying to say.
I tried very hard with my own kids. I did my level best to listen. And guess what? I suddenly found myself not just HEARING what they were trying to tell me, I UNDERSTOOD what they wanted to say, and I was able to empathise with them. I remembered my own feelings of confusion and as a result could feel theirs.
My eldest son is now in his thirties and my youngest is almost 26, while my daughter is in the middle. I was and am an exceedingly lucky parent.
During their teenage years, there was never any problem as regards being cheeky, rude, running-away, or being told that they hated me. In fact, I truly enjoyed their teenage years. They talked, I listened. I talked and they listened.
Something else I discovered during those wonderful years. Our children can be, and are very knowledgeable and wise about a great many subjects, perhaps not the same subjects that we are wise and knowledgeable about, but then, they are growing up in a different time than we did.
Please listen to your kids so that they can communicate with you and then you in turn with them.
Other than than that, always show a calm facade, never ever let them know that they have shocked you about anything, no matter what you might truly feel. Only discuss or deal with the matter at a later stage when you are truly calm,
Look after yourself and be safe
Sandy
http://www.moms-home-safety.comWhat are the essential characteristics of being a good parent?
i'm not a parent...but I would say unconditional love, support your child in what ever they decide, discipline whenever it is required too..Really, be a good role model...if you are a good person than your child will be a good person....What are the essential characteristics of being a good parent?
listen to them when needed but always be consistent if you break your rules once or dont go through with what you say then you lose that ground of them knowing that you will do what you say !
love %26amp; patience
Patience, unconditional love, understanding and judicious discipline when needed.
for me being a good parent its all about, rules keeping hem being a good listener,love them understand them, treat them with respect, have patience and still being able of discipline them. Take good care of them i think they call it tough love. And it has nothing to do with spanking a child I strongly believe that when you spank a child it is you who has lost control not the child. Being consistant with the rules and taking with them all will be fine. Comunication is the key.
being there when your child needs you. love them. take care of them. be a parent, not their friend, that doesn't work.
Good question. Here are my thoughts....
Being attentive to a child's needs, loving them unconditionally, playing with them every chance you get, being patient with them, teaching them what's important, leading by example, and being consistant and fair with discipline.
Parenthood is one of the most fulfilling experiences any species can have. There is a natural instinct that seems to come naturally to a new parent, but there are bits of advice that can help when you are challenged in the growing up years. The most important thing however, that any parents can instill in their child, is a sense of being loved. Remember also, that parenting does not stop when when a child grows. Being a good parent remains for life.
Steps
1. Set rules that would apply to any person in order for them to lead a happy and productive life. Be clear and balanced in communicating these to your kids. Show them by example, not only by verbally teaching. Children have a tendency to become what they see and hear. It is rare, but does happen, that a child will, of their own accord and strength, break out of a negative and hateful home environment.
2.
Talk to your child when he or she acts out in a harmful and spiteful manner. Be assertive, yet kind, pointing out what they have wrongly done. Be consistent in your teachings and do not let your child manipulate you into making exceptions. When enforcing consequences never act in anger. Remember that children imitate their parents verbal expressions. Teach them by showing them how to react in certain situations. Set boundaries so to teach them that they have limitations. By doing so, they actually get a sense of being loved and cared about by their parents. They might rebel at those boundaries, but inwardly enjoy knowing that they are loved by concerned parents.
3. Take interest in your child and be involved in his activities. Really listen to them, when they talk to you. Make them understand, by you actually telling them, that they can and should come to you when they have a problem. When they do, do not judge them but truly listen to them and guide them. Do not say one thing, and then do another. If you tell your children, that they can openly tell you if they have tried drugs, and then, when they talk to you about it,do not suddenly become angry at them. This is a moment for you to tell them, that you understand that they wanted to try it. Explain to them, calmly all the dangers involved with taking drugs. Omit nothing at all! Then, still remaining calm, tell them that now they know all the dangers, that they can make their own decision about taking drugs and walk away. They will think about what you had said, will understand all the perils of drugs, will not take them, and trust you in the future to help them and listen to them, without anger or judging them. You have now established a good relationship with your child.
4.
Respect their boundaries as you would want them to respect yours. Even a young child will understand and abide by the limitations set upon them. Instill in them, a sense of belonging, and of being loved. When you teach a child that your room, is out of boundaries to them, respect the same with their room. Allow them to feel that once they enter their room they can know that no one will look through their drawers, or read their diaries. At the same time, teach them to clean their room, and make their beds every morning. Even the youngest of children, should and can learn to tidy their room and put their toys away in the box at the end of the day. As your child grows, give them more responsibility, and at the same time give him or her more privacy.
5. Be a role model and try to live by the rules you set. It is difficult to teach a child the reasons they should not smoke, when they see you smoking. At the same time, teach them moderation, and responsibility that goes with, drinking, once they are old enough to be interested in it. It is perfectly normal to see you drinking at a party, or perhaps to have wine before a meal. This way they will not feel that they have to sneak around, when the time comes that they also would like to sip a bit of wine. Make sure, however, they aware of at what age you feel they can enjoy a drink with friends, and that they know about having a designated driver, if they drink at a party. Teach them about 'never drinking while driving', and 'never be a passenger in a car with someone who has been drinking'. If you are not open about these, they will sneak around and do it anyway. This way, you have established a relationship with your child, you have taught them to always be open about what they do, and that you trust them, and will always be there to help and assist them. You must be a parent first and friend second, to gain the trust of your children.
6. Never compare your children with others or even with siblings. Each child is and individual and unique. By not accepting this and by invalidating them and not recognizing them as being thus can tear down a child. Recognize each for their differences, and instill in each the desire to pursue their own interests and dreams.
7. Never shame or embarrass your children in front of other people. If they have done something wrong, if they have hit a child when they should not have, take them aside, and teach them privately. Teach them what is right and wrong, and then be stern, but not cross, when you tell them that you expect them never to do that again.
8.
Find some time to spend with them, and be with them alone. Set aside a day to spend with them, to go to the park, or theme parks. Perhaps a day to take a trip to a museum or a library depending on their age interests of course, but make them feel that they are a part of your life, and you are a part of theirs. Dinner times, talk to them. Turn off the TV, and speak about childhood things, and listen to them closely. Meals times should be family time. If, because of job responsibilities you cannot have dinner at an early hour every day, make sure that the time you do eat with them, is their time. At the same time, share your experiences with them. Allow them to be a part of your life, even when you are away from them.
9. Think about your childhood, and the mistakes YOUR parents made. Try to avoid making terrible mistakes
10. Parents should not fight or argue in front of their children even if you think they are sleeping. Save your arguments for the time you have alone with each other. Children feel insecure, and fear divorce, when they hear parents bicker. They learn by what they hear, and soon siblings will learn how to fight with each other. Teach them by showing them, that while people do not and probably should now always agree, there are peaceful ways to discuss their differences, by talking, and not fighting.
11. Try not to take sides when your children are quarrelling for fear of showing them favoritism. When you see them becoming extremely angry at each other, step in and discuss with them the problem they are having. See if you can help them, by not showing that one is wrong and the other right. Find a solution so that both of them can agree to terms, and walk away happy.
12. Never accuse others for your failures. Explore the mistakes which caused such failures and share them with your children. This will encourage their own introspection when they taste failures later in their life.
13.
Keep giving positive strokes. A gentle cuddle, a little encouragement, appreciation, approval or even a smile can go a long way to boost the confidence and well-being of your children. Give them this in abundance or else they may wander in search of a substitute by joining a crowd.
14. Teach your children that it is okay for them to be different and they do not have to follow the crowd. Teach them right from wrong when then are young, and they will always be able to make their own decisions, instead of listening to others.
Tips
* Remember that your child is not an extension of yourself. Your child is an individual under your care, not a chance for you to relive your life through them.
* Attend school functions. Do homework with them. Visit their teacher at open house. Even if it means taking some time away from work. Remember the children grow fast, and soon will be on their own. The time you have now with them, should bypass the time you have at work.
* Show them love, respect, and trust. Children should be very familiar with the consequences of their actions.
Warnings
* Do not be afraid to be a 'parent'. Teach them the rules of the house, teach them the laws of the country, teach them how to be safe, and if you are religious minded, take them to the church/synagogue/mosque/etc. of your denomination. Do your best, be their friend, but never let them forget you are their 'parent'. If you give them a punishment, do not back down because they might plead with you or cry. Remain steadfast and they will thank you later. However, always allow them to be secure in your love and concern for them.
Hope it helps.Good Luck!!
):-)
Love, respect, patience, and knowledge.
Love your child and be willing to do whatever you need to do to keep that child safe healthy and happy
Respect you child as an individual.
Have more patience then they have fight. When they are being difficult you need to be able to wait them out and still keep your cool.
The more you know about your childs surrounding and the people they come in contact with the better. Read books on what you don't know and look for ways to improve your parenting skill. You will both benifit.
give your kids your time. not your beer
For me, I teach with my head and my heart rather than with my hand or belt.
Avoid overindulgence.
Protect them by giving them a safe environment.
I feel good about myself, therfore it reflects on my children.
I guide and teach my children through example which means I respect them, set firm limits in a warm demanding way.
I am not permissive at all.
I don't threaten, insult, humiliate, control, micromanage or teach through fear by hitting.
I have a high level of responsiveness and praise their efforts.
I believe that both the child and parent have certain rights and their needs should be equally met.
I make sure my children's social, emotional, physical and intellectual needs are met.
I teach them to respect others.
I shower them with hugs and kisses every day.
My hubby believes in this too so we make a great team.
So we both feel we are good parents because we put our marriage first and our children join our lives. We have lots of laughs and good times!
We nurture our bond and that reflects on them to have a healthy relationship with their spouses when they become adults.
Hope this is inspiring to you.
To my mind, everything revolves around listening, but you can't listen if you do not communicate
I may be in my 50's, but I still remember my teenage years and the fact that adults never listened to what we teenagers were trying to say.
I tried very hard with my own kids. I did my level best to listen. And guess what? I suddenly found myself not just HEARING what they were trying to tell me, I UNDERSTOOD what they wanted to say, and I was able to empathise with them. I remembered my own feelings of confusion and as a result could feel theirs.
My eldest son is now in his thirties and my youngest is almost 26, while my daughter is in the middle. I was and am an exceedingly lucky parent.
During their teenage years, there was never any problem as regards being cheeky, rude, running-away, or being told that they hated me. In fact, I truly enjoyed their teenage years. They talked, I listened. I talked and they listened.
Something else I discovered during those wonderful years. Our children can be, and are very knowledgeable and wise about a great many subjects, perhaps not the same subjects that we are wise and knowledgeable about, but then, they are growing up in a different time than we did.
Please listen to your kids so that they can communicate with you and then you in turn with them.
Other than than that, always show a calm facade, never ever let them know that they have shocked you about anything, no matter what you might truly feel. Only discuss or deal with the matter at a later stage when you are truly calm,
Look after yourself and be safe
Sandy
http://www.moms-home-safety.comWhat are the essential characteristics of being a good parent?
i'm not a parent...but I would say unconditional love, support your child in what ever they decide, discipline whenever it is required too..Really, be a good role model...if you are a good person than your child will be a good person....What are the essential characteristics of being a good parent?
listen to them when needed but always be consistent if you break your rules once or dont go through with what you say then you lose that ground of them knowing that you will do what you say !
love %26amp; patience
Patience, unconditional love, understanding and judicious discipline when needed.
for me being a good parent its all about, rules keeping hem being a good listener,love them understand them, treat them with respect, have patience and still being able of discipline them. Take good care of them i think they call it tough love. And it has nothing to do with spanking a child I strongly believe that when you spank a child it is you who has lost control not the child. Being consistant with the rules and taking with them all will be fine. Comunication is the key.
being there when your child needs you. love them. take care of them. be a parent, not their friend, that doesn't work.
Good question. Here are my thoughts....
Being attentive to a child's needs, loving them unconditionally, playing with them every chance you get, being patient with them, teaching them what's important, leading by example, and being consistant and fair with discipline.
Parenthood is one of the most fulfilling experiences any species can have. There is a natural instinct that seems to come naturally to a new parent, but there are bits of advice that can help when you are challenged in the growing up years. The most important thing however, that any parents can instill in their child, is a sense of being loved. Remember also, that parenting does not stop when when a child grows. Being a good parent remains for life.
Steps
1. Set rules that would apply to any person in order for them to lead a happy and productive life. Be clear and balanced in communicating these to your kids. Show them by example, not only by verbally teaching. Children have a tendency to become what they see and hear. It is rare, but does happen, that a child will, of their own accord and strength, break out of a negative and hateful home environment.
2.
Talk to your child when he or she acts out in a harmful and spiteful manner. Be assertive, yet kind, pointing out what they have wrongly done. Be consistent in your teachings and do not let your child manipulate you into making exceptions. When enforcing consequences never act in anger. Remember that children imitate their parents verbal expressions. Teach them by showing them how to react in certain situations. Set boundaries so to teach them that they have limitations. By doing so, they actually get a sense of being loved and cared about by their parents. They might rebel at those boundaries, but inwardly enjoy knowing that they are loved by concerned parents.
3. Take interest in your child and be involved in his activities. Really listen to them, when they talk to you. Make them understand, by you actually telling them, that they can and should come to you when they have a problem. When they do, do not judge them but truly listen to them and guide them. Do not say one thing, and then do another. If you tell your children, that they can openly tell you if they have tried drugs, and then, when they talk to you about it,do not suddenly become angry at them. This is a moment for you to tell them, that you understand that they wanted to try it. Explain to them, calmly all the dangers involved with taking drugs. Omit nothing at all! Then, still remaining calm, tell them that now they know all the dangers, that they can make their own decision about taking drugs and walk away. They will think about what you had said, will understand all the perils of drugs, will not take them, and trust you in the future to help them and listen to them, without anger or judging them. You have now established a good relationship with your child.
4.
Respect their boundaries as you would want them to respect yours. Even a young child will understand and abide by the limitations set upon them. Instill in them, a sense of belonging, and of being loved. When you teach a child that your room, is out of boundaries to them, respect the same with their room. Allow them to feel that once they enter their room they can know that no one will look through their drawers, or read their diaries. At the same time, teach them to clean their room, and make their beds every morning. Even the youngest of children, should and can learn to tidy their room and put their toys away in the box at the end of the day. As your child grows, give them more responsibility, and at the same time give him or her more privacy.
5. Be a role model and try to live by the rules you set. It is difficult to teach a child the reasons they should not smoke, when they see you smoking. At the same time, teach them moderation, and responsibility that goes with, drinking, once they are old enough to be interested in it. It is perfectly normal to see you drinking at a party, or perhaps to have wine before a meal. This way they will not feel that they have to sneak around, when the time comes that they also would like to sip a bit of wine. Make sure, however, they aware of at what age you feel they can enjoy a drink with friends, and that they know about having a designated driver, if they drink at a party. Teach them about 'never drinking while driving', and 'never be a passenger in a car with someone who has been drinking'. If you are not open about these, they will sneak around and do it anyway. This way, you have established a relationship with your child, you have taught them to always be open about what they do, and that you trust them, and will always be there to help and assist them. You must be a parent first and friend second, to gain the trust of your children.
6. Never compare your children with others or even with siblings. Each child is and individual and unique. By not accepting this and by invalidating them and not recognizing them as being thus can tear down a child. Recognize each for their differences, and instill in each the desire to pursue their own interests and dreams.
7. Never shame or embarrass your children in front of other people. If they have done something wrong, if they have hit a child when they should not have, take them aside, and teach them privately. Teach them what is right and wrong, and then be stern, but not cross, when you tell them that you expect them never to do that again.
8.
Find some time to spend with them, and be with them alone. Set aside a day to spend with them, to go to the park, or theme parks. Perhaps a day to take a trip to a museum or a library depending on their age interests of course, but make them feel that they are a part of your life, and you are a part of theirs. Dinner times, talk to them. Turn off the TV, and speak about childhood things, and listen to them closely. Meals times should be family time. If, because of job responsibilities you cannot have dinner at an early hour every day, make sure that the time you do eat with them, is their time. At the same time, share your experiences with them. Allow them to be a part of your life, even when you are away from them.
9. Think about your childhood, and the mistakes YOUR parents made. Try to avoid making terrible mistakes
10. Parents should not fight or argue in front of their children even if you think they are sleeping. Save your arguments for the time you have alone with each other. Children feel insecure, and fear divorce, when they hear parents bicker. They learn by what they hear, and soon siblings will learn how to fight with each other. Teach them by showing them, that while people do not and probably should now always agree, there are peaceful ways to discuss their differences, by talking, and not fighting.
11. Try not to take sides when your children are quarrelling for fear of showing them favoritism. When you see them becoming extremely angry at each other, step in and discuss with them the problem they are having. See if you can help them, by not showing that one is wrong and the other right. Find a solution so that both of them can agree to terms, and walk away happy.
12. Never accuse others for your failures. Explore the mistakes which caused such failures and share them with your children. This will encourage their own introspection when they taste failures later in their life.
13.
Keep giving positive strokes. A gentle cuddle, a little encouragement, appreciation, approval or even a smile can go a long way to boost the confidence and well-being of your children. Give them this in abundance or else they may wander in search of a substitute by joining a crowd.
14. Teach your children that it is okay for them to be different and they do not have to follow the crowd. Teach them right from wrong when then are young, and they will always be able to make their own decisions, instead of listening to others.
Tips
* Remember that your child is not an extension of yourself. Your child is an individual under your care, not a chance for you to relive your life through them.
* Attend school functions. Do homework with them. Visit their teacher at open house. Even if it means taking some time away from work. Remember the children grow fast, and soon will be on their own. The time you have now with them, should bypass the time you have at work.
* Show them love, respect, and trust. Children should be very familiar with the consequences of their actions.
Warnings
* Do not be afraid to be a 'parent'. Teach them the rules of the house, teach them the laws of the country, teach them how to be safe, and if you are religious minded, take them to the church/synagogue/mosque/etc. of your denomination. Do your best, be their friend, but never let them forget you are their 'parent'. If you give them a punishment, do not back down because they might plead with you or cry. Remain steadfast and they will thank you later. However, always allow them to be secure in your love and concern for them.
Hope it helps.Good Luck!!
):-)
Love, respect, patience, and knowledge.
Love your child and be willing to do whatever you need to do to keep that child safe healthy and happy
Respect you child as an individual.
Have more patience then they have fight. When they are being difficult you need to be able to wait them out and still keep your cool.
The more you know about your childs surrounding and the people they come in contact with the better. Read books on what you don't know and look for ways to improve your parenting skill. You will both benifit.
give your kids your time. not your beer
For me, I teach with my head and my heart rather than with my hand or belt.
Avoid overindulgence.
Protect them by giving them a safe environment.
I feel good about myself, therfore it reflects on my children.
I guide and teach my children through example which means I respect them, set firm limits in a warm demanding way.
I am not permissive at all.
I don't threaten, insult, humiliate, control, micromanage or teach through fear by hitting.
I have a high level of responsiveness and praise their efforts.
I believe that both the child and parent have certain rights and their needs should be equally met.
I make sure my children's social, emotional, physical and intellectual needs are met.
I teach them to respect others.
I shower them with hugs and kisses every day.
My hubby believes in this too so we make a great team.
So we both feel we are good parents because we put our marriage first and our children join our lives. We have lots of laughs and good times!
We nurture our bond and that reflects on them to have a healthy relationship with their spouses when they become adults.
Hope this is inspiring to you.
As a parent, how would you act if your son or daughters teacher was very rude to you? Do you think you would?
yell at the teacher? I know I would. I would definiately speak my mind to the teacher since many of them are so arrogant these days.As a parent, how would you act if your son or daughters teacher was very rude to you? Do you think you would?
I would be pissed off, but if it was a one time thing (every other time was quite positive) I wouldn't make a big deal out of it. However, if it was something very repetitive I would talk to the administration about it.
I think there's a big problem in society now. Some parents think that teachers are their servants, and some forget that each teacher generally has another 25 students in elementary school and 100 more in middle/high school and demand that things be done immediately and forget that teachers have lives too.
My mom is a middle school science teacher, and she's been teaching for 35 years (20 in elementary, the last 15 in her current position). There are some days when she will come home in tears because some parents give her so much crap. It's really sad. The parents that do this are generally the parents who let their kids do whatever the heck they please and whatnot. One student called my mom a b*tch to her face and when she requested a conference with the parents (as this was not the first time this student had done this), and the parents came in and said ';Chad (the kid's name), don't listen to her, she doesn't understand that you are just expressing yourself.'; Then they got up and left, and while they were walking out my mom began crying and then the mom said ';Oh look at that, the b*tch is sobby sobby. That'll teach you not to be so rude to my child!'; I was in the room at the time because I was repairing her computer (I'm a computer science major and I do a lot of systems analysis and repair) and it made me so mad, it took so much for me to not go out into the hall and slap that woman silly.As a parent, how would you act if your son or daughters teacher was very rude to you? Do you think you would?
Think about the treatment your child will receive when he/she goes back to school. Do you really think the teacher will be kind to your child if you yell at the teacher or ';have it out';?....nooooo. I promise you, this teacher will also pass on to next years teacher ';choice bits'; about you and your child. This will make next year with a new teacher difficult too. Try to behave in a mature manner, but definitely speak to the teacher about your concerns. Depending on the level of rudeness and regularity, you may wish to speak with the principal. If the principal makes excuses or doesn't address this issue to the teacher, you may need to speak with the superintendent of schools. There are a lot of good teachers out there, but unfortunately there are a lot of burned out jerks too. You are a role model to your child as how to handle these types of problems, so don't react...respond.
Don't yell; you're sinking to her level. What you need to do is first document what happened (when, where, what was said, and in response to what.) Write her a note or email stating (as non-emotionally as you can) that you're going to be letting the principal know. She deserves to know what is happening to her as a professional, even if her behavior doesn't indicate this. You are going to be the better person here.
Remember that teachers have good and bad days, too. That's no excuse for her behavior, but it's something to keep in mind. If you find many of the teachers in your school are 'arrogant', it is important to find a new school.
And finally, whatever you do, DO NOT DISCUSS THIS IN DETAIL IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILD. What will happen is that your child, unknowingly (or knowingly, depending on the age), will begin to act with less respect toward the teacher. Which will, in turn, have the teacher at his/her wits' end with your child. Which will, in turn, create another nasty episode. You want school to be as positive an experience for your child as it can be. Unfortunately, your child's teacher isn't on the same page, but again, you can be the bigger person.
That depends, I KNOW I wouldn't yell at her because I am not that type of person that when someone is rude I would scream my lungs out ....that's just not me, BUT I would make my point without having to raise my voice...but I would absolutely tell her that she was rude and that she being a teacher she needs to hold her attitude, that If I approached her with respect I obviously expect to receive the same respect back. Usually people who are rude and gives you attitude when you act differently and point out her rudeness they tend to low down a little, I'm sure they realized how much of an @ss they are behaving.
My son's teacher has been rude to me. My only intention was to help my struggling son deal with some things at school, and her response was to shut me down. She was short with her answers and gave me the definite impression that she was done dealing with him, done trying.
My response was to take it to the principal. He and I talked for quite a while and he assured me that it would be dealt with. I checked back and found out she had been called into the office and talked to. She maintained her innocence in the situation, but he believed me and asked her to take a different tact with me next time. As a result, I got the back work I had asked for and I attempted to stay out of her way, knowing that she had given up on my son. That was 2 years ago and the school system hasn't changed much. I'm pulling him out and sending him to Christian school next year.
By the way, I am a teacher, also, although I just started. I would never dream of dealing with a parent in the way I was dealt with. No one should abuse their position by belittling someone else. How can a teacher expect the parents to be part of the education team for that child if they act that way toward them?
I don't suggest sinking to the teachers level. Keeping you cool and being the bigger person always makes a better impression. Speak your mind but be professional about it and definately call out the teacher on the rude behavior. Depending on the situation you may want to file a complaint with the school, however if you're yelling back you'll have a hard time getting anyone on your side.
Of course I would not yell at them. How is that mature and how will that possibly help the situation?
I would, however, ask to have a meeting with him/her as soon as possible. I'd let her know that there is no reason to be rude and we need to discuss whatever the problem is. I'd probably also request that the principal be there as well. In a civilized and controlled environment is where I would voice my dissatisfaction with his/her behavior.
I am answering this as a parent and a teacher.
No teacher (or anyone for that matter)should be rude to anyone, student or parent. There are a lot of other ways to get your point across.
To me the more important question is how does the teacher treat your child? Is the teacher rude to him or her? Then there is a real issue. Does the teacher treat your child poorly because of their negative feelings toward you? If the teacher is ok with your child then I'd let it go. You only see the teacher a few times during the school year.
If you feel like you need to address this issue, then have a meeting with the teacher and include the principal. Let the principal know before hand the reason that you are including him or her. Have the meeting about your child with the principal there. You will feel better because if the teacher is rude the principal can handle it, if the teacher is ok, then you had a successful meeting about your child, which was the goal.
Do you know any other parents that have students in the same class? How does the teacher treat them?
Teachers have a lot of stress, we work about 20 hours a week that we aren't paid for...most teachers are paid for classroom time only but spend a lot of extra time creating lessons, grading papers, etc on our own time. And no we can't do all the extra work during classtime.
Is your child participating positively in class, doing his/her homework? If not maybe the teacher feels like they are wasting their time in meetings with you.
I know it's awful to have the teacher be rude, but the real goal is to have your child be successful in school and learn what they need to be successful.
No, I would not yell. Especially if my child were present. This has happened to me and I handled the situation this way. I pointed my perception of her word. Then asked to reschedule the meeting. I then called the principal and reported the incident. When we met again her behavior was much different and remained that way the rest of the school year.
i am a teacher, and your best recourse is to notify the principal of his/her behavior. if nothing is done or you feel that the actions of the principal are not sufficient, contact your school's superintendant. yelling at him/her will only get you banned from school property or get the police called on you.
If it happened at an isolated incident,let it go. Maybe there was a stressful day or situations you are not aware of. Everyone gets short at times. If it were an ongoing thing (as in more than one time) I'd flat out ask if there was something I did to offend them to be so short in their response to me at the meeting. If I didn't get a sastisfactory answer from them I'd file a complaint with the building principal.
What does ';rude'; mean, specifically? If I knew what he/she had said or done, it would be easier to answer the question. I can tell you that yelling at the teacher will do NO ONE any good - not you, not the teacher, and certainly not your child.
If your an adult...........you meet it head on right at the point........find out what's going on.........and get it out in the open........';I would like to know the understanding of your presentation '; teacher........... Teacher's don't have the right to be rude to parents..................even if your kid is a brat....
I am certainly not afraid to voice my opinions or disagree with a teacher and I have done that in the past. However, I would never yell or argue. What would that solve?
I would not yell but I would tell the rude teacher that I would be informing the principal about the situation.
i would definantly report them to the principal
i wouldnt yell or argue or fight with them
because then i would be sinking all the way down to their level
Two wrongs don't make a right. They just make two wrongs instead of one.
I try to behave politely, or, at least, civilly, even when people are being rude to me.
No, I would not yell. My eyebrows would go up and my tone would get very cold and formal. If I thought it was necessary, I would start to take notes.
When that happened to me I was rude right back, in a louder voice than normal.
I'd ring the school and talk to the principal.
maybe you are just upset to hear the truth.
i've had that happen on many occasions. i try not to raise my voice or get rude back but it becomes very difficult. i am stressed to the max and will be so glad when school is out for the summer. i have had many problems with the school my son attends(he's 6 by the way!).the child they discribe is not my son. i feel they exaggerate everything. they even wanted me to see a pediatrition..which i did...and behind my back asked if he could check for adhd!? i was having no part of it. i'm glad i opened the referal letter! i couldn't believe what they had wrote on it! after talking to the specialist..he told me there was no problem with my son..it was in the school!!! it's a constant battle for me. they stretch the truth and continue to not tell me things. if my child cries too much i'm told but if another child hits him i'm not notified and nothing is done. i watched my son play in the school playground one day (unknown to the teachers) and watched children pushing each other and jumping on each other to get one of the three baskets balls and nothing was said or done. my son was a little upset because he couldn't get a ball but he didn't push or shove no more than the rest when trying to get one. once he got a ball he was getting ready to throw it and there was a ball by his feet so he kicked it (not very hard) out of the way. all of a sudden a teacher was there and grabbed him by the two arms and put him in time out. she didn't speak to him or give him any warning...nothing! i think the teacher should have given him a warning first.even though i didn't see him doing anything wrong ! i got a letter that evening stating he was being physically aggressive on the playground!!ugh! it boils my blood! i even tried to talk to the principal...to no avail. all the faculty are gonna band together! as far as i'm concerned i wish i could homeschool me son. as a parent i feel i have no rights! the school faculty can get away with anything.they don't have to tell you anything about what goes on in school if they don't want to. they constantly avoid me in hopes i'll just forget!! i won't!! but i think it stinks that they can do as they see fit with our kids and we don't have many rights. i mean...if you have your child in daycare..and something happens...they HAVE to tell you. if they don't and you find out you can charge the daycare. it's so much more difficult when it comes to school. they have all the rights and you have jack s**t! anyhow...i know it's hard but there's not much you can do.if i come off rude or yell at them that would just give them bullets for their guns! school sucked when i was a child going there and it still sucks when i'm a parent!! i hope to god no-one is going through what i am!! i have lost all respect for the school system and feel i will never gain it back!
cuss dat bit*h out.
I would be pissed off, but if it was a one time thing (every other time was quite positive) I wouldn't make a big deal out of it. However, if it was something very repetitive I would talk to the administration about it.
I think there's a big problem in society now. Some parents think that teachers are their servants, and some forget that each teacher generally has another 25 students in elementary school and 100 more in middle/high school and demand that things be done immediately and forget that teachers have lives too.
My mom is a middle school science teacher, and she's been teaching for 35 years (20 in elementary, the last 15 in her current position). There are some days when she will come home in tears because some parents give her so much crap. It's really sad. The parents that do this are generally the parents who let their kids do whatever the heck they please and whatnot. One student called my mom a b*tch to her face and when she requested a conference with the parents (as this was not the first time this student had done this), and the parents came in and said ';Chad (the kid's name), don't listen to her, she doesn't understand that you are just expressing yourself.'; Then they got up and left, and while they were walking out my mom began crying and then the mom said ';Oh look at that, the b*tch is sobby sobby. That'll teach you not to be so rude to my child!'; I was in the room at the time because I was repairing her computer (I'm a computer science major and I do a lot of systems analysis and repair) and it made me so mad, it took so much for me to not go out into the hall and slap that woman silly.As a parent, how would you act if your son or daughters teacher was very rude to you? Do you think you would?
Think about the treatment your child will receive when he/she goes back to school. Do you really think the teacher will be kind to your child if you yell at the teacher or ';have it out';?....nooooo. I promise you, this teacher will also pass on to next years teacher ';choice bits'; about you and your child. This will make next year with a new teacher difficult too. Try to behave in a mature manner, but definitely speak to the teacher about your concerns. Depending on the level of rudeness and regularity, you may wish to speak with the principal. If the principal makes excuses or doesn't address this issue to the teacher, you may need to speak with the superintendent of schools. There are a lot of good teachers out there, but unfortunately there are a lot of burned out jerks too. You are a role model to your child as how to handle these types of problems, so don't react...respond.
Don't yell; you're sinking to her level. What you need to do is first document what happened (when, where, what was said, and in response to what.) Write her a note or email stating (as non-emotionally as you can) that you're going to be letting the principal know. She deserves to know what is happening to her as a professional, even if her behavior doesn't indicate this. You are going to be the better person here.
Remember that teachers have good and bad days, too. That's no excuse for her behavior, but it's something to keep in mind. If you find many of the teachers in your school are 'arrogant', it is important to find a new school.
And finally, whatever you do, DO NOT DISCUSS THIS IN DETAIL IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILD. What will happen is that your child, unknowingly (or knowingly, depending on the age), will begin to act with less respect toward the teacher. Which will, in turn, have the teacher at his/her wits' end with your child. Which will, in turn, create another nasty episode. You want school to be as positive an experience for your child as it can be. Unfortunately, your child's teacher isn't on the same page, but again, you can be the bigger person.
That depends, I KNOW I wouldn't yell at her because I am not that type of person that when someone is rude I would scream my lungs out ....that's just not me, BUT I would make my point without having to raise my voice...but I would absolutely tell her that she was rude and that she being a teacher she needs to hold her attitude, that If I approached her with respect I obviously expect to receive the same respect back. Usually people who are rude and gives you attitude when you act differently and point out her rudeness they tend to low down a little, I'm sure they realized how much of an @ss they are behaving.
My son's teacher has been rude to me. My only intention was to help my struggling son deal with some things at school, and her response was to shut me down. She was short with her answers and gave me the definite impression that she was done dealing with him, done trying.
My response was to take it to the principal. He and I talked for quite a while and he assured me that it would be dealt with. I checked back and found out she had been called into the office and talked to. She maintained her innocence in the situation, but he believed me and asked her to take a different tact with me next time. As a result, I got the back work I had asked for and I attempted to stay out of her way, knowing that she had given up on my son. That was 2 years ago and the school system hasn't changed much. I'm pulling him out and sending him to Christian school next year.
By the way, I am a teacher, also, although I just started. I would never dream of dealing with a parent in the way I was dealt with. No one should abuse their position by belittling someone else. How can a teacher expect the parents to be part of the education team for that child if they act that way toward them?
I don't suggest sinking to the teachers level. Keeping you cool and being the bigger person always makes a better impression. Speak your mind but be professional about it and definately call out the teacher on the rude behavior. Depending on the situation you may want to file a complaint with the school, however if you're yelling back you'll have a hard time getting anyone on your side.
Of course I would not yell at them. How is that mature and how will that possibly help the situation?
I would, however, ask to have a meeting with him/her as soon as possible. I'd let her know that there is no reason to be rude and we need to discuss whatever the problem is. I'd probably also request that the principal be there as well. In a civilized and controlled environment is where I would voice my dissatisfaction with his/her behavior.
I am answering this as a parent and a teacher.
No teacher (or anyone for that matter)should be rude to anyone, student or parent. There are a lot of other ways to get your point across.
To me the more important question is how does the teacher treat your child? Is the teacher rude to him or her? Then there is a real issue. Does the teacher treat your child poorly because of their negative feelings toward you? If the teacher is ok with your child then I'd let it go. You only see the teacher a few times during the school year.
If you feel like you need to address this issue, then have a meeting with the teacher and include the principal. Let the principal know before hand the reason that you are including him or her. Have the meeting about your child with the principal there. You will feel better because if the teacher is rude the principal can handle it, if the teacher is ok, then you had a successful meeting about your child, which was the goal.
Do you know any other parents that have students in the same class? How does the teacher treat them?
Teachers have a lot of stress, we work about 20 hours a week that we aren't paid for...most teachers are paid for classroom time only but spend a lot of extra time creating lessons, grading papers, etc on our own time. And no we can't do all the extra work during classtime.
Is your child participating positively in class, doing his/her homework? If not maybe the teacher feels like they are wasting their time in meetings with you.
I know it's awful to have the teacher be rude, but the real goal is to have your child be successful in school and learn what they need to be successful.
No, I would not yell. Especially if my child were present. This has happened to me and I handled the situation this way. I pointed my perception of her word. Then asked to reschedule the meeting. I then called the principal and reported the incident. When we met again her behavior was much different and remained that way the rest of the school year.
i am a teacher, and your best recourse is to notify the principal of his/her behavior. if nothing is done or you feel that the actions of the principal are not sufficient, contact your school's superintendant. yelling at him/her will only get you banned from school property or get the police called on you.
If it happened at an isolated incident,let it go. Maybe there was a stressful day or situations you are not aware of. Everyone gets short at times. If it were an ongoing thing (as in more than one time) I'd flat out ask if there was something I did to offend them to be so short in their response to me at the meeting. If I didn't get a sastisfactory answer from them I'd file a complaint with the building principal.
What does ';rude'; mean, specifically? If I knew what he/she had said or done, it would be easier to answer the question. I can tell you that yelling at the teacher will do NO ONE any good - not you, not the teacher, and certainly not your child.
If your an adult...........you meet it head on right at the point........find out what's going on.........and get it out in the open........';I would like to know the understanding of your presentation '; teacher........... Teacher's don't have the right to be rude to parents..................even if your kid is a brat....
I am certainly not afraid to voice my opinions or disagree with a teacher and I have done that in the past. However, I would never yell or argue. What would that solve?
I would not yell but I would tell the rude teacher that I would be informing the principal about the situation.
i would definantly report them to the principal
i wouldnt yell or argue or fight with them
because then i would be sinking all the way down to their level
Two wrongs don't make a right. They just make two wrongs instead of one.
I try to behave politely, or, at least, civilly, even when people are being rude to me.
No, I would not yell. My eyebrows would go up and my tone would get very cold and formal. If I thought it was necessary, I would start to take notes.
When that happened to me I was rude right back, in a louder voice than normal.
I'd ring the school and talk to the principal.
maybe you are just upset to hear the truth.
i've had that happen on many occasions. i try not to raise my voice or get rude back but it becomes very difficult. i am stressed to the max and will be so glad when school is out for the summer. i have had many problems with the school my son attends(he's 6 by the way!).the child they discribe is not my son. i feel they exaggerate everything. they even wanted me to see a pediatrition..which i did...and behind my back asked if he could check for adhd!? i was having no part of it. i'm glad i opened the referal letter! i couldn't believe what they had wrote on it! after talking to the specialist..he told me there was no problem with my son..it was in the school!!! it's a constant battle for me. they stretch the truth and continue to not tell me things. if my child cries too much i'm told but if another child hits him i'm not notified and nothing is done. i watched my son play in the school playground one day (unknown to the teachers) and watched children pushing each other and jumping on each other to get one of the three baskets balls and nothing was said or done. my son was a little upset because he couldn't get a ball but he didn't push or shove no more than the rest when trying to get one. once he got a ball he was getting ready to throw it and there was a ball by his feet so he kicked it (not very hard) out of the way. all of a sudden a teacher was there and grabbed him by the two arms and put him in time out. she didn't speak to him or give him any warning...nothing! i think the teacher should have given him a warning first.even though i didn't see him doing anything wrong ! i got a letter that evening stating he was being physically aggressive on the playground!!ugh! it boils my blood! i even tried to talk to the principal...to no avail. all the faculty are gonna band together! as far as i'm concerned i wish i could homeschool me son. as a parent i feel i have no rights! the school faculty can get away with anything.they don't have to tell you anything about what goes on in school if they don't want to. they constantly avoid me in hopes i'll just forget!! i won't!! but i think it stinks that they can do as they see fit with our kids and we don't have many rights. i mean...if you have your child in daycare..and something happens...they HAVE to tell you. if they don't and you find out you can charge the daycare. it's so much more difficult when it comes to school. they have all the rights and you have jack s**t! anyhow...i know it's hard but there's not much you can do.if i come off rude or yell at them that would just give them bullets for their guns! school sucked when i was a child going there and it still sucks when i'm a parent!! i hope to god no-one is going through what i am!! i have lost all respect for the school system and feel i will never gain it back!
cuss dat bit*h out.
Is it normal to distance yourself when caring for parent with Alzheimer's?
Sometimes I feel I'm being cold to what she wants( not needs) during her spells of depression. Sometimes just plain don't know how to act or what to say. I can't make other people do anything to sooth her(family) so I kind of have to be cold but doesn't make me feel right about it. What should I be doing?
She lives with me and my husband.Is it normal to distance yourself when caring for parent with Alzheimer's?
I think this is a self preservation mechanism. It's not that you are cold and uncaring, but dealing with a loved one who is suffering from Alzheimer's can be very difficult and frustrating. Especially in the times when the person can be quite lucid and know their surroundings and other times there is no recognition at all. There is no set of written rules to help you know what to say or how to act. I am sure you are doing your best to cope in this very difficult situation. Of course there are help groups available for families of people who suffer this problem. I am sure if you looked it up on the net you could probably find one in your area or contact your the social worker involved in the case of your relative. It may in fact come the time when you will not be able to look after her and she may have to go into care and that is something one also needs to consider, at what point to do you realize that keeping her at home may not be the best thing for her or for you and your husband. I hope everything goes well for you.Is it normal to distance yourself when caring for parent with Alzheimer's?
Don't matter how much you do or how much you care, you'll
feel guilty -- what's normal ? maintaining your sanity. Spent
five years with a parent in the latter phases of alzheimer's
and am lucky to still be married after the strain put on the
wife as well as myself. It's a terrible disease. Try to shake
the unwarranted guilt. May God give you the strength.
Turning off the emotional connection is self-preservation. If caregivers care too deeply, then every setback and loss can be devestating.
Do the best you can, forbid guilt for not doing even more, and make sure you get a respite when you need one.
yes, its the way you are coping with everything that is going on, many people do this so not to feel hurt as they get more ill, for me my father has Parkinson's disease and I understand the pain and the protective wall you are putting up around yourself. How long ago did it start? if its a more new thing you are simply coming to terms with it all. take care good luck
You are dealing with so much and just feel like you need a break. Why won't someone else help deal with her are the questions your asking yourself. I understand its hard and that's just how some people deal with it is to distance themselves its not a deliberate or wrong act its a coping mechanism. I can't imagine watching some one you love so dearly deteriorate so much as Alzheimer's does to its victims. Thank God my grandparents were well when they passed and my parents are still relatively young but I know it can affect us to and I pray that if or when it does that we have your strength. you may not feel strong but you are God Bless
She lives with me and my husband.Is it normal to distance yourself when caring for parent with Alzheimer's?
I think this is a self preservation mechanism. It's not that you are cold and uncaring, but dealing with a loved one who is suffering from Alzheimer's can be very difficult and frustrating. Especially in the times when the person can be quite lucid and know their surroundings and other times there is no recognition at all. There is no set of written rules to help you know what to say or how to act. I am sure you are doing your best to cope in this very difficult situation. Of course there are help groups available for families of people who suffer this problem. I am sure if you looked it up on the net you could probably find one in your area or contact your the social worker involved in the case of your relative. It may in fact come the time when you will not be able to look after her and she may have to go into care and that is something one also needs to consider, at what point to do you realize that keeping her at home may not be the best thing for her or for you and your husband. I hope everything goes well for you.Is it normal to distance yourself when caring for parent with Alzheimer's?
Don't matter how much you do or how much you care, you'll
feel guilty -- what's normal ? maintaining your sanity. Spent
five years with a parent in the latter phases of alzheimer's
and am lucky to still be married after the strain put on the
wife as well as myself. It's a terrible disease. Try to shake
the unwarranted guilt. May God give you the strength.
Turning off the emotional connection is self-preservation. If caregivers care too deeply, then every setback and loss can be devestating.
Do the best you can, forbid guilt for not doing even more, and make sure you get a respite when you need one.
yes, its the way you are coping with everything that is going on, many people do this so not to feel hurt as they get more ill, for me my father has Parkinson's disease and I understand the pain and the protective wall you are putting up around yourself. How long ago did it start? if its a more new thing you are simply coming to terms with it all. take care good luck
You are dealing with so much and just feel like you need a break. Why won't someone else help deal with her are the questions your asking yourself. I understand its hard and that's just how some people deal with it is to distance themselves its not a deliberate or wrong act its a coping mechanism. I can't imagine watching some one you love so dearly deteriorate so much as Alzheimer's does to its victims. Thank God my grandparents were well when they passed and my parents are still relatively young but I know it can affect us to and I pray that if or when it does that we have your strength. you may not feel strong but you are God Bless
What kind of debt transfers from parent to child once the parent dies? Any measure of protection?
I live in the United States
State of California What kind of debt transfers from parent to child once the parent dies? Any measure of protection?
Debts die with the debtor. If you co-signed a loan with your parents, you would still have to pay it, but not any other loans. Any money or property left in the estate would be used to pay off the debts before the estate would be passed on to the children.What kind of debt transfers from parent to child once the parent dies? Any measure of protection?
If you co-signed a promissory note or if you are jointly and severally judgment debtors, you may have a debt after the death of a parent.
Generally, however, a debt owed by a person at the time of the person's death may remain a debt owed by that person's estate. It would mean that heirs would have the inheritance reduced by the amount to be paid to the debtor.
Other than that, I cannot think of any debt that passes to a surviving offspring.
State of California What kind of debt transfers from parent to child once the parent dies? Any measure of protection?
Debts die with the debtor. If you co-signed a loan with your parents, you would still have to pay it, but not any other loans. Any money or property left in the estate would be used to pay off the debts before the estate would be passed on to the children.What kind of debt transfers from parent to child once the parent dies? Any measure of protection?
If you co-signed a promissory note or if you are jointly and severally judgment debtors, you may have a debt after the death of a parent.
Generally, however, a debt owed by a person at the time of the person's death may remain a debt owed by that person's estate. It would mean that heirs would have the inheritance reduced by the amount to be paid to the debtor.
Other than that, I cannot think of any debt that passes to a surviving offspring.
Can a parent withold medical insurance from their child?
I am a seventeen-year-old girl who was kicked out of my house when I was 16. I have been living alone since then and am now six months away from turning 18. I am not emancipated because of the lengthy process and cost of an attorney. I recently came under the need of medical attention, but my single-parent mother withheld the Medicare in my name from me. Is this legal? Is there any way I can obtain my medical insurance?Can a parent withold medical insurance from their child?
--- If Mom is still claiming you as a dependant on her income tax forms as well as getting medicare for you then you have a good case to start with. However I have a question as to what you said to start with here.
---You say you have not been emancipated due to the cost of an attorney? I am sorry but I have a lot of problems with that statement. If you are under 18 and truly had attempted to get yourself emancipated then you would know that you don't need money. A child in need of protective services, such as emancipation, can get free services from the county social services agency as well as the Public Defender's Office.
--- You can have a ';Guardian ad Litem'; assigned to represent you in this situation from the public defender's office at no charge if you have no money, or at a reduced rate if you have access to earnings or savings of some sort.
--- Also, your basic question here can be most accutately answered by those same people at the public defender's office. I am sure there is some problem there with Mom getting medicare services for you and then not giving them to you, but its a legal question best answered by a lawyer. The questions about emancipation can also be handled best by them so my advice to you is go see someone at the public defenders office. Can a parent withold medical insurance from their child?
I don't believe so. Your medical insurance is actually her medical insurance until you are 18. You are technically still her property also until that time since she is the only one responsible for the mistakes you might make. She is likely keeping the insurance from you so that you'll go back home. It seems like she's being mean, but she's just being a mom. You can't tell Medicare the situation or they'll stick you in foster care and if you want the insurance, you gotta deal with your mother.
--- If Mom is still claiming you as a dependant on her income tax forms as well as getting medicare for you then you have a good case to start with. However I have a question as to what you said to start with here.
---You say you have not been emancipated due to the cost of an attorney? I am sorry but I have a lot of problems with that statement. If you are under 18 and truly had attempted to get yourself emancipated then you would know that you don't need money. A child in need of protective services, such as emancipation, can get free services from the county social services agency as well as the Public Defender's Office.
--- You can have a ';Guardian ad Litem'; assigned to represent you in this situation from the public defender's office at no charge if you have no money, or at a reduced rate if you have access to earnings or savings of some sort.
--- Also, your basic question here can be most accutately answered by those same people at the public defender's office. I am sure there is some problem there with Mom getting medicare services for you and then not giving them to you, but its a legal question best answered by a lawyer. The questions about emancipation can also be handled best by them so my advice to you is go see someone at the public defenders office. Can a parent withold medical insurance from their child?
I don't believe so. Your medical insurance is actually her medical insurance until you are 18. You are technically still her property also until that time since she is the only one responsible for the mistakes you might make. She is likely keeping the insurance from you so that you'll go back home. It seems like she's being mean, but she's just being a mom. You can't tell Medicare the situation or they'll stick you in foster care and if you want the insurance, you gotta deal with your mother.
At what age did you decide to be a parent?
For the ones parenthood got by surprise. How old were you when it did?
I wanted a baby at 20. Had the baby a few months after my 21 birthday.At what age did you decide to be a parent?
i was 14 but i didnt exacty choose itAt what age did you decide to be a parent?
17
First i got married and 2nd i got pregnant at age 17 i had my baby when i turn 18 .
At just over 23 I decided I wanted to be a foster parent, and I was just over 24 when I was approved and had my first child arrive.
sometimes it is an event and there isn't any choice for choose....
I was 28.......and I think It was very soon
although its great..............
i wanted a baby since i was 20 yrs old. but just got pregnant and i'm 21!
my pregnancy was the best suprise of our lives! we now have a 14 week old daughter, i am 18, and my fiancee is 23. x
i planned on having one at 25 instead i have 3 by 26, with my first coming at 14.
29 and no kiddos. not yet
I got a girl pregnant at 14, her mother was 18. and had the choise, love it or lose it. in the end i decided that it was my baby and i would love her no matter what. her mother cleared of when she was 1 month and i have continued to look after her by myself ever since. she is now 15, and extremly happy, im am 29 and just got engaged to my beautifull 23 year old fioncee, and we are both planning on having a child together sometime this year. our 15 year old is extremly happy for us, and is so exited to have another woman in the house, and possibly a sibling.
I always knew I wanted kids, from an early age. I started feeling ready to be a mom around 25 and waiting for my husband to feel the same way. I was 27 when my first child was born. I made that decision four more times at 30, 34 and 37. I no longer feel the need to have a baby in the house....I'm done! lol
25
I was 27 for the first and 34 for the second and am glad I waited. I would not have been a good parent in my early 20's. Life was too much about me, and I was not mature enough to handle all the responsibilities, emotionally or financially...
33 years
It was a surprise, I will be a parent when I'm 22.
I fell pregnant and had my daughter at 19, and had my son at 20.
31.5yrs.
i dont know.im not a mumdental cosmetics
I wanted a baby at 20. Had the baby a few months after my 21 birthday.At what age did you decide to be a parent?
i was 14 but i didnt exacty choose itAt what age did you decide to be a parent?
17
First i got married and 2nd i got pregnant at age 17 i had my baby when i turn 18 .
At just over 23 I decided I wanted to be a foster parent, and I was just over 24 when I was approved and had my first child arrive.
sometimes it is an event and there isn't any choice for choose....
I was 28.......and I think It was very soon
although its great..............
i wanted a baby since i was 20 yrs old. but just got pregnant and i'm 21!
my pregnancy was the best suprise of our lives! we now have a 14 week old daughter, i am 18, and my fiancee is 23. x
i planned on having one at 25 instead i have 3 by 26, with my first coming at 14.
29 and no kiddos. not yet
I got a girl pregnant at 14, her mother was 18. and had the choise, love it or lose it. in the end i decided that it was my baby and i would love her no matter what. her mother cleared of when she was 1 month and i have continued to look after her by myself ever since. she is now 15, and extremly happy, im am 29 and just got engaged to my beautifull 23 year old fioncee, and we are both planning on having a child together sometime this year. our 15 year old is extremly happy for us, and is so exited to have another woman in the house, and possibly a sibling.
I always knew I wanted kids, from an early age. I started feeling ready to be a mom around 25 and waiting for my husband to feel the same way. I was 27 when my first child was born. I made that decision four more times at 30, 34 and 37. I no longer feel the need to have a baby in the house....I'm done! lol
25
I was 27 for the first and 34 for the second and am glad I waited. I would not have been a good parent in my early 20's. Life was too much about me, and I was not mature enough to handle all the responsibilities, emotionally or financially...
33 years
It was a surprise, I will be a parent when I'm 22.
I fell pregnant and had my daughter at 19, and had my son at 20.
31.5yrs.
i dont know.im not a mum
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